So I knew of this girl once. Know her still. Recently she has been brought to my attention again.
She was a mediocre student, a clingy needy personality and no looks to speak of. Then she went into crazed gym mode and totally revamped her body. Managed to graduate and begin working. And throughout with everyone, every female that is, would maintain her image of “oh my god I am so innocent” … “O;I never meet any males I couldnt think of it”
The guys in our mixed group who had known her for a while saw right through her. Since they related stories of her coming to them with her neckline down to there, her sleeves up to here and various “khirkiyan” (windows) in her clothes and ask “o is my neckline too low?”…“O this dress is not revealing is it?” . By the way, all dresses and necklines were revealing and low, it was just a blonde tactic to focus attention on her boobs or stomach or anything that particular dress revealed too much of.
Kher, such was her development. Over the years, we found out about her various meetings with “cousins” around town. Sometimes she was spotted here and there, other times a slip of tongue. This way or that, the astute could see that she had a number of things going on. Which was fine, but what rankled was the whole “i am so pure” thing she maintained. Plus she would make a whole big deal out of how her parents were super conservative, yet she’d be out at weird hours in the middle of the night. Once she called a mutual friend and claimed she was stranded at 1 am at some place and her car had stopped working and her dad and mom were due back anytime from islamabad on a whim, so please please can she be picked up and dropped home? When asked what she was doing out over there so late, she claimed that she needed a panadol or some other medicine so she went out to get it.
Anyhow.Then, last we heard of her, her ex had been calling all of us up. He was one of her cousins. Whom she had maintained as a cousin for years in front of all of us. And he was all crying about her leaving him. Apparently she had told him that uski aukaat nahi thi ke she be with him. According to him he used to spend all his salary on her gifts and whatnot. 30K dress for her birthday. 20 K shoes every month. She had gone as far as to insult his family. Saying that his dad was just a civil servant and earned nothing and was worth nothing and hence the family didnt deserve the likes of her. She was too good for them ie.
Here’s the kicker. She had maintained that she was from a very high class family and had sent pictures of a friends house (the friend has a gorgeous house, huge. Parents very well off, Lahore elite) claiming it was hers.
At the time she had ditched him for a rich dude who had proposed to her formally.That was last year.
NOW, she’s been brought to attention again. She was thrown out of a very high class gym for misbehaviour. She joined another gym in Lahore where the traffic is mostly social elite or people with army connections. A guy, a complete casanova, at least ten years her senior has fallen for her. Word is he is pursuing her actively and she is playing her whole “im so innocent” routine while meeting him up for coffee during ramadan. She has told him that her dad is quite materialistic so is trying to figure out how much his income is. He does have an idea that she is materialistic herself but that doesn’t deter him.
My opinion. They deserve each other so much. Karma kicks ass.
But honestly, how can guys get taken in by girls like this? Beyond being a golddigger she is a pathological player. It is so glaringly obvious. How can anyone be taken in? Not only does this guy find himself nuts over her, but other guys too, the guy who related the story for instance, confessed that his first opinion of her was that she was quite classy.
Gimme a break. Judgement call please.
