Gold Sets- Baree and Jahez

[Pareezay]

@dildirani

I don’t really wear gold much, although my nani and my phupo tend to get me little pendant and earring sets for special occasions.

I quite like artificial jewellery and tend to wear to stick to wearing chooriyaan and earrings for special occasions.

On a day to day basis I wear a diamond ring and some diamond studs. I have already decided and told my mum when it comes to me getting married, I just want to borrow her jewellery. Mashallah she has some really stunning pieces e.g. emerald and ruby sets which are lovely and are timeless. Even my mum hardly gets a chance to wear her jewellery and it would be pointless for me to get additional pieces just for it to sit in the bank:smack:

The only thing I would want is a jhoomar and I will be more than happy. My 13 year old sister told my nani she likes rani haars/saat laaras and next thing you know my nani gave her rani haar set thing to my sis. She doesn’t even have her ears pierced!

My mum got most of her jewellery from my nani. Dad got Mum some sets after their wedding. Daadi got Mum some karay, a ring, a medium sized set and a pendant set.

I think Dad used to feel as if my Daadi had been a bit harsh on my Mum hence why he bought her quite a few pieces at a later date. Mum never minded and even to this day never complained or anything.

I suppose bari/jahez traditions are something which are relative to each family. In our family there is no set tradition, it is based on an individual basis and dependant on where you live, the type of person you are, whether you will wear get wear out of what you are given etc etc.

Awww and I am sure your mom’s jewelry is going to look lovely on you.. there’s always something special about what belongs to mothers.