i think the poster said the inlaws dun want her to wear real gold on valima... nowhere did she specify that they will NOT b givin her gold set. i think she cud make a deal. let them give her valima set but she wudnt wear it. but she shud definitely get gold set from boy side. trust me, there are so many nice artificial sets in market that you wudnt regret it much.
Agree....!!!!