Going out with non-Muslim girls..

..but thinking you won’t marry them..

What happens if you fall in love?

Re: Going out with non-Muslim girls..

^you-still-don’t-marry-them? :confused:

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Deeba Bro, give the brothers a break, will you?

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Problems occur if/when you fall in love. Family, culture, religion, lifestyles etc etc etc

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How ironic looking at the 2 people that liked your post..

Take a look at my last 10 threads, how many were specifically about the opposite sex, genius..

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Chill out Deeba Bro, how's it going?

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Falling in love is not directly proportional to getting married :)

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Would you try to take it further tho if you really thought you loved her?

Just wondering how hard people find it to walk away.. I don't think I would have been able to :(

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Yeah, I suppose..

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KARMA

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Whether the girl is muslim or not, both should make their expectations from the relationship clear. If she's in it just for fun too, then I guess it doesn't matter. But it is cruel to walk away because she isn't "good enough to take home to mom" when you've made her believe that you have a future together.

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Yeah, it is cruel.. but then again I've heard sisters tell their brothers to dump their non-Muslim gfs as well..

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another topic: if you *stuck in love with non muslim guy *

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Yes.. but not as many desi girls seem to go out with non-Muslim guys (comparatively)..

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Great!

Anyhow, if not plan to marry the person from beginning then why even date?

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Its very very difficult. Sometimes you don't want to walk away but you get forced into the position. Other times you just know its for the best. Either way, the important thing to remember is the world dosen't end.
Sometimes however people are lucky enough to make it work. God bless them :)

Re: Going out with non-Muslim girls..

really? :chai:

Re: Going out with non-Muslim girls..

Most of us in the west know lots of guys who go out with non-Muslims but comparatively fewer girls who do (for lots of reasons.. the girls don’t usually have as much freedom to stay out late or if they’re ‘able’ to date they might think it’s too much hassle with it being religiously and culturally more controversial)..

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Well if i fell in love with her then i will have to make a commitment with her. I mean i chose her to be my girlfriend so i would make a do. For non-muslim i only mean Jew or Christian girl.

Re: Going out with non-Muslim girls..

Have you ever been in that situation?