Going on a date with your spouse.

Thanks to PSlim for starting this topic :smiley:

You married folks, do you go on a date with your spouse? My question is especially to the people with kids.

What do you do? WHere do you go? DO you mind sharing?

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:chai:

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Aap ke liye hee pooch rahaa thaa

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hehe nice save there TLK

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:D.

I can see her sarcasm cause we never did that in last 16 years

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yes, my baniya and i do try to schedule regular “date nights” without the kids (or at least we used to before he got all busy being mr. bad arse flight instructor who is never home on the weekends now :teary2:)

We usually do something along the lines of:

-dinner & movie
-concert (the desi ones)
-film festivals or art exhibit
-couples only get togethers/parties within our social circle

Our best “date” was a surprise he arranged me for me when the twins turned 1 and eldest boy was 3…7 glorious days in Barcelona, Spain!!! He arranged for my mom & sister to stay at our house with the kids while we recuperated from the past year..lol!

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:chai:
16 years and I’m still waiting.

Hai I wish. Hubby can't imagine us going anywhere without the kids. I asked if we could go away for a weekend and leave the kids with my parents.

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wow, this sounds awesome.

Now let me tell you something about us. We are such a boo-boo nunna munna parents (and I am saying that with anger upon us) that we start missing our kids and start feeling guilty if we ever get an opportunity to have an outdoor fun time without them- to the extent that our family friends many times offered us to go out on a movie and leave our kids with their kids for a play date, but we never took upon such offers.

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laughs hysterically

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But I lived almost each day of those 16 years with u :frowning:

read my reply. We are just like your hubby. :smiley:

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no wonder he never took you out. your laughter could be embarrassing for him in public.

j/k :(

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He was planning to take me umra but no one is ready to keep the kids....not even for a day.

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although most of our activities are with kids but I'd say hmmmm once in 5/6 Months. Normally its dinner or dinner+shopping (or walk at lakeside)

our last date was at cheesecake factory in Buffalo. Arranged 3 hours of childcare and took her out. She really needed a break then :)

of course her guilt feeling kicks in "aray acha hota k kids ko bhi lai aatey" but....

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ok we are talking about dates not umra. Do you have to throw your taqwa and eeman at our face, every time :mad:

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my bhai is smoooooooth as silk......

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In that case, you should've arranged for husband care and sent her out with kids.

ok j/k :)

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Mullah ki dor masjid tuk.

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:champ:

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oh* that break* does not need 5-6 months, that break is needed once every couple of week and is provided :)

Most likely she need one tonight - so get ready I'll be posting the picture of what I cooked on Friday night ! LOL