Going on a date with your spouse.

Lifestyle Relationships
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Thanks to PSlim for starting this topic :smiley:

You married folks, do you go on a date with your spouse? My question is especially to the people with kids.

What do you do? WHere do you go? DO you mind sharing?

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Re: Going on a date woth your spouse.

:chai:

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Re: Going on a date woth your spouse.

Aap ke liye hee pooch rahaa thaa

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hehe nice save there TLK

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:D.

I can see her sarcasm cause we never did that in last 16 years

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yes, my baniya and i do try to schedule regular ā€œdate nightsā€ without the kids (or at least we used to before he got all busy being mr. bad arse flight instructor who is never home on the weekends now :teary2:)

We usually do something along the lines of:

-dinner & movie
-concert (the desi ones)
-film festivals or art exhibit
-couples only get togethers/parties within our social circle

Our best ā€œdateā€ was a surprise he arranged me for me when the twins turned 1 and eldest boy was 3ā€¦7 glorious days in Barcelona, Spain!!! He arranged for my mom & sister to stay at our house with the kids while we recuperated from the past year..lol!

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Re: Going on a date woth your spouse.

:chai:
16 years and Iā€™m still waiting.

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Hai I wish. Hubby canā€™t imagine us going anywhere without the kids. I asked if we could go away for a weekend and leave the kids with my parents.

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wow, this sounds awesome.

Now let me tell you something about us. We are such a boo-boo nunna munna parents (and I am saying that with anger upon us) that we start missing our kids and start feeling guilty if we ever get an opportunity to have an outdoor fun time without them- to the extent that our family friends many times offered us to go out on a movie and leave our kids with their kids for a play date, but we never took upon such offers.

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laughs hysterically

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But I lived almost each day of those 16 years with u :frowning:

read my reply. We are just like your hubby. :smiley:

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no wonder he never took you out. your laughter could be embarrassing for him in public.

j/k :frowning:

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Re: Going on a date woth your spouse.

He was planning to take me umra but no one is ready to keep the kidsā€¦not even for a day.

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although most of our activities are with kids but Iā€™d say hmmmm once in 5/6 Months. Normally its dinner or dinner+shopping (or walk at lakeside)

our last date was at cheesecake factory in Buffalo. Arranged 3 hours of childcare and took her out. She really needed a break then :slight_smile:

of course her guilt feeling kicks in ā€œaray acha hota k kids ko bhi lai aateyā€ butā€¦

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ok we are talking about dates not umra. Do you have to throw your taqwa and eeman at our face, every time :mad:

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Re: Going on a date woth your spouse.

my bhai is smoooooooth as silkā€¦

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In that case, you shouldā€™ve arranged for husband care and sent her out with kids.

ok j/k :slight_smile:

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Re: Going on a date with your spouse.

Mullah ki dor masjid tuk.

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:champ:

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oh* that break* does not need 5-6 months, that break is needed once every couple of week and is provided :slight_smile:

Most likely she need one tonight - so get ready Iā€™ll be posting the picture of what I cooked on Friday night ! LOL