Re: God is Not Great
Peace SaeedinPakistan
These questions are for a different topic, **I hope moderators will cut off your question and my response to make a new thread ...
Titled: "Problems with the Islamic faith"
**Q1) You ask whether you should believe that Muslims should be better than other people when they clearly are not - by extension you say that Muslims are sanctioned by Allah to rape and murder.
A1) There is no rape or murder sanctioned by Allah (SWT) ... Muslims are not better either. Yes, our ideal (we believe) is best ... but that does not mean WE are better ... The Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said in his final sermon "No Arab superior to a non-Arab and vice-verse, no white superior to a black and vice-versa, except by his conduct"
Q2) Are women a source of fitnah? Will there be more of them in hell?
A2) We don't know if there will be more in hell ... the particular reference is when Hz. Muhammad (SAW) saw a glimpse of hell - when on the night journey and saw on that instance many women ... those who were not grateful to their husbands ... It was related to the people to encourage the women to spend in the way of Allah (SWT) ... despite there being fewer burdens of duty on them. Are women a source of fitnah?
Fitnah is not a bad word ... The Prophet Yusuf (AS) was a fitnah for the women of his time - and the Potiphar's wife also saw him (AS) as a fitnah - one where she was going to be betray her morals just to be with him ... Fitnah means (test or trial) ... Also, children are fitnah in another way ... wealth is a fitnah in another way ... women are a fitnah because our softness for them can make us close to bending our morals in order to please them ... By being aware of this we can be prepared for this ...
Q3) How do I explain more women in hell given they have free will ...
A3) This has already been explained, but the reality is more women are born and women live longer on average - throughout the history of mankind that all adds up ... free will has nothing to do with it.
Q4) Are they designed to commit more sins? That's unfair.
A4) No, they are given less religious responsibilities because they have other factors to contend with - in the long run every individual is assessed individually - his or her potential to sin is compared against their societal influence, i.e. their upbringing, also their capabilities to understand and their sincere efforts to be good are taken to account before a sin is given is payment.
Q5) How do you explain the mysogyny in Islam?
A5) It is just a way of accomodating but capping a natural human tendency ... The stress on a monogomous marriage far outweighs the acceptability of multiple wives, and to show how unfair - extra-marital affairs are - Islam binds any consideration of further relationships to be restricted within the marriage framework - giving the women rights over their husband, that girl friends would otherwise not have ...
Q6) Are women allowed to make their own decisions?
A6) Yes they are ... unfortunately many men think they are not allowed to make their own decisions ... Remember Islam says there is "no complusion in faith" ... and there is a type of etiquette expected in marriage where wife should be dutiful to her husband, but he should be caring to her - or else he should not expect her to be dutiful.
Q7) Are women allowed to go out alone without a mahram?
A7) Yes they are, but it is no advisable for them to go too far for their safety ... it is because we do not trust some dodgy men who may take advantage of them. Just imagine the Queen saying that she wants to go to Nigeria for a weekend break, and she jumps on a plane and travels there herself ... not only will she be hampered with carrying her own bags, dealing with the bribes herself but she will have to make every arrangement herself and at the same time be careful for not being taken away ... Should we not treat our women like royalty? Of course, the can go out themselves ... but they will do so willingly against the advice. I personally disagree with regimes that make non-mahram travel a punishable crime ... it is not a punishable crime - It is not even a crime in that sense - it is merely good advice.
Q8) What makes men better than women?
A8) I think with my last answer - you should be asking "what makes women better than men?" Answer - nothing - we each have different roles to play in society.
Q9) When are all the murtids going to be killed?
A9) A person can exercise his free will and renounce his faith ... not a problem ... but in an Islamic country where Islam is promoted any person preaching against Islam is doing treason ... Treason is still a major crime in most tribunals around the world punishable by death ... or at least extradition ... Since we have this option - the better thing to do with such people is to throw them to a country that will take them - otherwise convince them to remain silent in their disbelief i.e. not to preach against Islam becoming an enemy to Islam in which case they can remain and enjoy the protection from the state. At no point should harm come to them.
What about the stoning to death for married fornicators. Is the punishment proportional to the crime?