well maybe its true guys always have the option of going back and getting a supposedly "pure" and prettier girl, but they always end up paying the cost because when the girl comes here they end up havin to teach them EVERYTHING and creating a life for them, from getting a driving license to somehow making them capable of working or atleast having a career. i mean, even if you marry a doctor from pak, you gotta bring her back n guide her through the process of USMLEs like a little child n it takes YEARS. i kno my brothers would rather marry an independent minded girl from america who already has her life in order and knows what living here requires in contrast the paki brides who don't even know what grocery shopping means.
p.s. i'm not trying to offend any girls on here. i guess it would be the same if an "amreekanized" larki tried living in pakistan after marriage and had to learn all the family politics, all the haggling tactics at bazaars, and learning to chill in front of teh tv all day while ordering the servants to do all the work. i'm not even joking, i remember the servants used to make fun of me when i was in pak cuz i never let them do any of my work n i would always clear the table myself after eating n sometimes wash my own dishes. they thought i was crazy :/