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hey , I was wondering if I could get any advice on hair. Im worried because im getting married this year and need to do somethign with my hair.
I had mess with my hair when I went to Pakistan in summer 2006. I took perm products with me to pakistan and thought I ll get it done over there. It was clearly wrttien on the instructions that do not keep the product on your hair for more than 30 minutes. I told her like 100 times, and she was like dunt worry we have asian hair, u wont get any curls if i take it off in 30 mins. so I ended up hacing that product on my hair for 2 hours. and guess what? When i washed my hair, and after naturally drying them, the results were worst, worst, worst.
My hair felt so hard and all. I literally cried ..... lol... I had a photo session that same day for some reason, so I had to use straightening iron to make my hair look a bit better. I know hair straigntening the same day was more damage. But i had no choice left. I couldnt go to that idiot lady again because I had my flight two days after. so I left pakistan. After I got back I always put egg whites and oil on my hair and washed them after 3 to 4 hours. I lost all my shine and everything.
I have had lot of hait cuts since after that. because my hair strated developying white joints on them.
I religiously condition my hair after each wash. thats what my hair dresser told me, that conditioner will get the chemicals out.
but its been 2 years now. My hair seem not to recover. some times they look great. some times they dunt. I always have to use hair straightener after each wash and drying my hair. reason for that is when I wash my hair they are still curly. The curls shape is not good enough that I go out with curly hair. So I always have to use straightening iron.
I was wondering if you guys have any piece of advice so I can have natural shine again and my hair becomes naturally soft.
Thanks