giving money to inlaws

i'm not saying i wasnt, all im saying is that if he hadve needed that money to do something else i wouldnt have taken it from him. if he had needed it to improve his life in some way i wouldnt expect him to give me anything.
zaroori yeh nahin hain kay vo mujhe kuch day tho phir hi meray dil say dua nikhligi. im sure alll parents do dua for their kids no matter how good/bad they are. m point was he should start sending the money when he himself is living a stable life...