Giving birth then moving back to live with inlaws/ parents for 4 wks. - ur experience

Re: Giving birth then moving back to live with inlaws/ parents for 4 wks. - ur experi

Do it. We’ve gone to plenty of post baby houses where the mother couldn’t come down because she was feeding the baby or having a bath or something else and sometimes the husband would bring down the baby with no show from the mother. It’s not odd at all.

And even though you’re trying to be different you’re still conforming yourself to your mother’s norms. You don’t have to do everything her way, you do know that, right? She may not be physically there but her shadow is over a lot of your thought process.