because that will give u something to keep yourself busy and might help to sort out a few problems... IMO u have too much time to think about whats the menu or the color of the walls or bed covers...etc... I truly hope things work out for u and ur wife...Inshallah...Good luck..!!..:)
yaar ethay koi lahori nai jera meri side lai? maybe i did not explain myself properly, maybe i gave you all her good things. she sometimes make me feel she doesnot trust me. now when you are husband and you feel that your wife has trust issues then it causes more depression.