well then you guys are NOT meant for each other. Couples fight.. but those who love each other learn to sacrifice. I won't talk on your wife's behalf but if you really love her than rather than thinking about her faults, think about her good side. If you can't find any than you are not in love with her. You need to look at her positive side.
Also no one is asking you to leave your mother and never talk to her but every relationship has its place. Sometimes you need to realize that somethings are private between husband and wife. Your fights are your private matter, even if your wife dragged your mom in it, you should try to make sure you don't do the same.
At this point you are not showing maturity that a 28yr old should have.
So stop waiting for us to blame her. we are NOT blaming you, we are showing what your wife might be seeing in you as well but won't say it on your face.
maybe i do not sound mature like a 24 year old american but i am mature in real life. i have a very normal life in pakistan. yes i got more love than other people, but that is not my fault and nothing wrong with getting more love. only good people are loved more than others, nobody loves a bad child, right?
when i cannot talk to my wife about my fights and some hurtful things she says i have to go to somebody i know. my loving brother or sister or my mother or a close friend. I want to understand why she says things she say or hurt me verbally. I think she is hurt and maybe gets angry because of hurt but when we try to talk we end up with more fights. sometimes i think what is the faida.
but we love eachother very much, we fight we become naraz but she always comes back to me. that tells me she still loves me right.