If a guy who is married, tries 2 kiss u on ur lips & fondles u…!
U know da guyz wife, but u barely know da guy.
I know its a strange question, but I’m asking this 4 a girl who has gone thru this trauma. What would u have done?
Let me add this - what if u havent been thru this, but u were subjected 2 a situation like this. What would u do?
how old is the girl in question?
if she is old enuf to handle the matter, she should tell him to screw off. if not, then she should definitely talk to someone about it. its better to talk these disturbing experiences out with someone, rather than keeping them inside u all ur life.
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*Originally posted by mal1k: *
Let me add this - what if u havent been thru this, but u were subjected 2 a situation like this. What would u do?
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I have never gone through such a situation and I hope to Allah that I never have to.When I hear of such stories....it makes me shiver....and makes me wonder what a girl whos gone through that must feel like.Personally I cant even begin to imagine.I was once working at some place...and there was a guy who used to look at me in the most disgusting (in my opinion) way.I couldnt stand it so I quit.I cant even stand such looks let alone even think about any more physical contact.
If I was ever put in such a situation I would probably fight with all my strength ,and get out of there.I would tell his wife ,and everybody else.
It happened 2 some1 very close 2 me. She is 18 yrz old & she did fight out of da situation. But she hasn't told her mom or da guyz wife. Should I go ahead & tell da guyz wife & da galz mom?
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It happened 2 some1 very close 2 me. She is 18 yrz old & she did fight out of da situation. But she hasn't told her mom or da guyz wife. Should I go ahead & tell da guyz wife & da galz mom.
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yes you should.Its not something to be kept to yourselves.
yes but dont tell who the girl is otherwise shes going to have to answer to many ppl for something thats not her fault
^^ Nuthin serious happened with da gal, Xcept, that now da guy is in 4 some deep **. I can say with assurance; results **will be murderous. The gal is innocent.
You need to calm yourslef down.For you to do something insane...he'll be getting what he went out get- thats to hurt you even more.You do need to tell everybody about him...but the girl needs to tell herself too ...if they dont believe you.I mean the person who it happenes to needs to tell the others.And shes innocent so the rest of the families better listen to her -and do something about the guy.
MQ ji, I'm calm. Lemme just say - what if that girl was ur 18 yr old sister. ALLAH forbid if something happens like that 2 some1 very close, then U cannot see any further than a pistol's barrel.
I also wan2 ask this.......I know da gal is innocent, but does all of this means, that ALLAH put her thru an Xam, or somethin else? She is a religious girl so dun point any fingers on da girl.
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MQ ji, I'm calm. Lemme just say - what if that girl was ur 18 yr old sister. ALLAH forbid if something happens like that 2 some1 very close, then U cannot see any further than a pistol's barrel.
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I know exactly what you're saying.But I would also want to be there to take care of that girl.And for me to go and do something crazy....where would that leave her?I cant feel exactly how the girls family etc must feel.But they need to see that they have to take care of her ,and be there for her.
first of all calm down
i know someone who smashed a guy straight through a vending machine for touching his sister the wrong way, ofcourse he got suspended from uni
whatever happens be careful the word doesnt spread
Smashed thru a vending machine - I say that is very soft. I think he should have been sent 2 da hospital. I know I'm sayin everythin with rage, but when u have rage & fury, da only thought that comes 2 mind is - Vengeance with a bullet.
Some1 touches my sister, I might have done da same. I dun go around fondling & kissing other girls, who r da respect & honor of an individual. She may be a sis, a wife or a plain daughter, but whatever she is, she demands respect.
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*Originally posted by mal1k: *
Smashed thru a vending machine - I say that is very soft. I think he should have been sent 2 da hospital. I know I'm sayin everythin with rage, but when u have rage & fury, da only thought that comes 2 mind is - Vengeance with a bullet.
Some1 touches my sister, I might have done da same. I dun go around fondling & kissing other girls, who r da respect & honor of an individual. She may be a sis, a wife or a plain daughter, but whatever she is, she demands respect.
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Insha Allah things will work out for you.Just have faith in Allah.A woman should never have to go through this...but unfortunately it happens.You are human ...and you have feelings.... just try to see what will be best.And the best thing is to be there for her and take care of her.Hate will not help her ,only caring about her will make her better.
Hell a man who cant respect a lady is no man indeed..... now there waz a dude in parking of UN building in ISBD last week and he was forcing a lady to come with her after a party grabing her and all.... i warned him 2cie waznt listening.....so had to use the universal language.... broke a rib and lower jaw...men must learn how to behave like MEN....
Re: Girlz, what would u do?
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*Originally posted by mal1k: *
If a guy who is married, tries 2 kiss u on ur lips & fondles u.......!
U know da guyz wife, but u barely know da guy.
I know its a strange question, but I'm asking this 4 a girl who has gone thru this trauma. What would u have done?
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At the particular moment, I would punch him in his face or poke my finger in his eye.. better yet, use my knee in the "right place". Then spit on his damn face and leave as soon as possible, while he is still trying to gather himself.
And if u want to know, what I wud do after all this.. I would inform his wife about her no good husband. And tell my family members about what happened.
I would either shove him off to slap him. As Chandbeti said, I would tell my family what happened and then inform my friend of her husband's behaviour. If that ends the friendship, then so be it. Better she know the truth than hide it from her cause that would only make me look guilty.
Re: Girlz, what would u do?
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*Originally posted by mal1k: *
If a guy who is married, tries 2 kiss u on ur lips & fondles u.......!
U know da guyz wife, but u barely know da guy.
I know its a strange question, but I'm asking this 4 a girl who has gone thru this trauma. What would u have done?
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sighs
this situation is too similar....
how did she respond to him?? the only thing that a person can do in that situation is to run to hide in some place and cry....
hmm, is the guy related to the girl? don't tell her whole family about it as this is prolly the most embarrassing thing happened in her life, just tell her mom and tell her to warn this guy or directly talk to his wife and if he comes to their house then tell him to stop coming and stay away from her daughter...
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BILKULLLLLLLLLL :k:
Chandbeti wise words gurly
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*Originally posted by mal1k: *
Smashed thru a vending machine - I say that is very soft. I think he should have been sent 2 da hospital. I know I'm sayin everythin with rage, but when u have rage & fury, da only thought that comes 2 mind is - Vengeance with a bullet.
Some1 touches my sister, I might have done da same. I dun go around fondling & kissing other girls, who r da respect & honor of an individual. She may be a sis, a wife or a plain daughter, but whatever she is, she demands respect.
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totaly agree with you!!!!