hey everyone!!!
just wanted to know from all married and engaged girlies…
how do u adress ur mil?
do u call them mum, aunty or what???
i would want to call my mil to be mum or whatever just so its feels more personal than aunty ji but i cant imagine calling anyone mum apart from my mum!!!
does it change once ur married?
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i call her aunty :) my mum will always be my mum no1 will take that name :d
I call her Maa, cause thats what hubby calls her
I call my mum Ammi, and thats what hubby calls her too
so we have a Maa and a Ammi, all happy :)
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I call my MIL Aunty... because we've been family friends since 10 years and i just couldn't get myself to start calling her "ammi" all of a sudden.
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i don't have Mil
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I call her Aunty but I call her Ammi when I speak to my fiance. I really cannot fathom calling her Ammi. Only my birth mother should be given that name.
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I Just call my MIL Amma, your real mum's the real thing !!! can't beat that no matter how good your mother in law is.
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Calling someone amma or ammi doesnt make them your mom, its just a personal choice. I call mine ***** aunty that's only because we havent announced our engagement yet. Once we do that I will call her what my hubby does. Same goes for him.
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I call my mother MOM
MIL is Ammi
i call her aunty :) my mum will always be my mum no1 will take that name :d
like that
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i started off with aunty, but then my father in law pointed out that its nicer if i called her ami ji & from that day on thats what i called her- it was really hard to begin with because obv u dont see her as ur mum but as the rishta grew it felt right
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so im not the only one calling my mil aunty!
maybe once im married i may feel comfortable calling her what my hubby calls her :)
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call her baRii ammaaN :)
You call her something that got censored? 
some mother in laws get offended if you dont call them mum or whatever titel your hubby uses as they think u havent totally accepted her. so we have no choice but to call her mum. its a lil weird at first then u get used to it.
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Reminds of an episode of Everybody Loves Raymond
some mother in laws get offended if you dont call them mum or whatever titel your hubby uses as they think u havent totally accepted her. so we have no choice but to call her mum. its a lil weird at first then u get used to it.
yeah keep that in mind...
btw what you think of her is more important than what you call her :)
No, I censored her name!
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I used to call her aunty till we got rukhsatified and even then it took me a good month or two to get used to the idea of calling her ammi. There was no pressure from the inlaws but i found i really did think of her as ammi when i started calling her that. Hubs calls my ammi, ammi too.
I call my MIL Ammi. That's what my husband calls her too. I call my mom Ammi too. But I of course make it obvious which "Ammi" I am talking about. My MIL is a true mom to me and my husband both. I don't mind calling her Ammi. She is awesome!