Girls - Would you?

[Deeba1234]

Re: Girls - Would you?

@DaffyDuck

Stoppit- it is no longer my scenario. We talked out and the reasons he provided were convincing enough plus I would’ve done it for him anyways, my preference is family life over career life as well. My worry was not being able to work or not, it was being told what to do and what not to do. But then that’s the only thing ever he asked me for and he is flexible with almost everything so am settled and have accepted the decision happily now.

Right not the topic has been started for 2 of my other friends who are still engaged and not in nikkah. For them careers hold heavy weight importance and they are going through a rough patch with their fiancée because of it. I can’t suggest them my way because the reasons my husband gave are way different from what their fiancés are giving. So was wondering what others in such a situation would do.

Also - in my circle of friends, colleagues and relatives the trend is kind of increasing .. Reasons for most seem to be the same though.

If it holds a lot of importance even if these girls give up their careers wouldn’t they feel a lot of resentment?

There are plenty of girls who’d be happy to stay at home.. dunno why guys who prefer this can’t just find a partner who is ok with it and vice versa..

It’s major stuff that should have been ironed out prior to an engagement..