Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you???
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agar samaj main nahe aay to bata daina angraze main post kar dunga
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
why would any woman get involved knowingly with a married man...why let things get that far ahead in the first place, don't get it. one has to be narcissistic to the core to get to that point.
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
But why its always a man's fault . May be he is no more in love with this woman or may be he started loving someone else more or may be he is not getting enough lovin' at home . Should he still force himself to spend his life with her ? Being a good parent and good spouse are two different things . Isn't it ?
Ditto man.. Cant agree anymore!!
I dont understand, how easy it is for women to put their blame finger on the guyz, forget all what he has been doing for them and push him to point zero, rather beyond that and stop understanding him or his issues right away... O btw, he is definitely a man as presumeably he's dealing with two complicated women at a time, one of which is giving him life time trouble making his life hell, so not the right choice of determining his manhood.
So its very easy to say, why not he does this or why not that, rather it should be realized of how severe this situation can be.. Just count the types of pressure he may be in, from top to bottom & the struggle he's doing to come out of it, and one can easily know..
But again, why go that deep down.. when the easy way out is to put all the blame on the poor guy, and move on with yr life.. :)
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you???
Very well said :k:
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
never....
if he can leave his first wife and kids for you.....he can leave you and your kids for someone else...
what goes round comes round..
you ruin someones life, they'll ruin yours...
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
ya either do that or tell his wife/society that he's looking for another wife p.s. It applies only to the married guyz na, u tau can look as much as u can :@:
:@: na
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
never....
if he can leave his first wife and kids for you.....he can leave you and your kids for someone else...
what goes round comes round..
you ruin someones life, they'll ruin yours...
agree women are evil never make shadi or kids
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
Ditto man.. Cant agree anymore!!
I dont understand, how easy it is for women to put their blame finger on the guyz, forget all what he has been doing for them and push him to point zero, rather beyond that and stop understanding him or his issues right away... O btw, he is definitely a man as presumeably he's dealing with two complicated women at a time, one of which is giving him life time trouble making his life hell, so not the right choice of determining his manhood.
So its very easy to say, why not he does this or why not that, rather it should be realized of how severe this situation can be.. Just count the types of pressure he may be in, from top to bottom & the struggle he's doing to come out of it, and one can easily know..
But again, why go that deep down.. when the easy way out is to put all the blame on the poor guy, and move on with yr life.. :)
If he was really a MAN - which I take to mean a guy with grace, compassion and dignity, and cojones, he would:
1) be honest with his wife and make every effort to work through the relationship, and if that fails,
2) end it!
For him to go trolling for a honey on the side while it's not working with the wife is pretty sad. It seems like he's hedging his bets and waiting to figure out what the best option is.
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
Never allow myself in a position like that in the first place but women who do...know fully well what they're doing.
Its inexcusable behavior for both parties...man and woman.
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you???
Is this somwhere written in the Quran ka if he does it once he will do it again … 
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you???
What gave you the impression that the guy did not give his all efforts..
So right now what we are discussing is something that has passed through step one and before or after step 2. And remember that, the step 2 doesnt come just like that. In our societies, it always take some time before someone could end it. And as someone had commented earlier that he may be in luv with someone while on the other side his wife is already compelling him to leave her.. Now if the other woman also doesnt help him, I dont know where would he go!!
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you???
You’re either in a relationship and committed to making it work or you’re out the door. The “one foot in, one foot out” means he’ll hold onto the nagging wife until someone “better” comes along. If the relationship is not working out with the wife end it - but the reason for ending the relationship should be because the couple could not make it work and not because he’s “fallen in love”.
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you???
And you are forgetting a very important point that we are discussing the guys who start 2nd relationships being still MARRIED.
Two wrongs never make a right. People who try to sail in two boats at the same time drown in the end
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
And you are forgetting a very important point that we are discussing the guys who start 2nd relationships being still MARRIED.
Oh then it makes more sense ... the guy goes into a marriage that may be an unwilling decision or anything as per your first post, and things become worse when the wife doesnt act like a wife, he ends up with starting a new relationship which may be a true one for him. Now, this is baseless & ridiculous to say that if his first relationship failed, the second one will end up that way too cuz if things are tend to happen like that, then there will be no 2nd marriage, rather only 1st or 4th. Ppl do find their soulmates after going through the disastrous end of first one. Its life, wut can one say about it!!
Two wrongs never make a right. People who try to sail in two boats at the same time drown in the end
Theoretically its correct. And actually I feel for such guyz. But eventually they have to settle down in one boat. It can be either his wife coming back to him or his new relationship turning into a marriage. But yes, you are right here, they should not wait a long to come up with making a bold decision for their lives.
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
Oh then it makes more sense ... the guy goes into a marriage that may be an unwilling decision or anything as per your first post, and things become worse when the wife doesnt act like a wife, he ends up with starting a new relationship which may be a true one for him. Now, this is baseless & ridiculous to say that if his first relationship failed, the second one will end up that way too cuz if things are tend to happen like that, then there will be no 2nd marriage, rather only 1st or 4th. Ppl do find their soulmates after going through the disastrous end of first one. Its life, wut can one say about it!!
Theoretically its correct. And actually I feel for such guyz. But eventually they have to settle down in one boat. It can be either his wife coming back to him or his new relationship turning into a marriage. But yes, you are right here, they should not wait a long to come up with making a bold decision for their lives.
How long before the new soulmate turns sourmate? How long before the novelty of new found soulmate wears off? What do you do then? Continue looking and sail in two boats.........I think people should be very careful when they embark on having an affair (cheating) as this is a great sin in Islam, one that is not excusable for the married man/woman! Secondly, people need to grow up and start taking responsibility for their actions.........if a relationship is not working then end it before embarking on another.
There is no excuse for an affair, people with messed up mentalities use any excuse to justify this......but they should look within themselves rather than blaming the wife/husband for an excuse. Remember, you can't handle a new relationship when the guilt comes to haunt you........you will constantly blame each other for messing someone's life in the process. Karma does have a way off catching up with you......best to be honest and own up and get out!