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So If a guy is willing to leave his wife and kids for you due to any reason ( family pressured marriage, hi school sweet heart & had to get married, married in an early age etc.) would you marry him???
I would never, I can’t picture my self seen as a home wrecker no matter how awesum he is or how bad his married life is. I don’t ever ever want to be that other women.
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
I think being someone who believes in Karma, I dont think my concientous will play up on me and I wouldnt be able to live at the thought of wrecking someone elses fullfilled home.
I would always be aware that somewhere somehow I will have to pay for being so evil.
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
Nope. I also believe in karma.
But then again women who're willing to date or show some type of romantic interest in a married man (especially when he has kids)...well, these women's aren't the poster child for family values to begin with....so most of them probably don't care. If they cared about the man's wife/family to begin with....they wouldn't have shown interest in him.
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I some time wonder who are these women? who actually go after the married man not the already widowed/divorced ones but the ones who are married and have their own lives. If all women start considering this Karma thing I doubt we would see so many broken homes
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If a guy divorces his wife, that doesn't necessarily make him "bad." Perhaps they were incompatible (it happens). I've even seen an actual case where the wife is abusive. And there are also cases where the guy may not really have a sound reason for leaving his wife. But abandoning your children..........that's really low. I don't think you can be truly happy if you build your own home on the shambles of someone else's home.
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^ RV I am not talking about the ones who are already widowed or divorced, I am talking about the ones who are already married, who go back to their wife and kids at the end of the day and claim that they'll leave them once you agree to marry to them because they are so unhappy in their lives
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
^ RV I am not talking about the ones who are already widowed or divorced, I am talking about the ones who are already married, who go back to their wife and kids at the end of the day and claim that they'll leave them once you agree to marry to them because they are so unhappy in their lives
^Why is this guy "claiming" to leave his wife and kids? When I read "claiming", I think that perhaps the the "other woman" is the one who is pressurizing him to leave his wife and children..........and he's too uncomfortable with the idea of just leaving them for her........and so as a result he sets his OWN condition.....that he'll leave them IF she marries him. The guy could be setting a trap for her. She could marry him...but then the could deliberately never leave his first wife and kids. He might assume that since she has become his wife...that she'll eventually get used to the situation. Or he might even use her....and then when he's had enough....divorce her...and go back to first wife and children. I've no respect for such a guy or even such a woman.
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No I wouldn't because if a man has kids and a wife that would make him pretty old. I don't see why a 22 year old would want to do that. There are plenty of people out there other than married uncles.
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One of my female friends....she got married with a man who was married and had a daughter.
We all stopped her but she married him and forced him to divorce first wife...which he actually did. The mother took her daughter along to her parents place. I still feel bad about it. All she says is " He never loved her....his wife is cheap, abusive, jaahil and Batmeez"
But no matter what....I believe if that guy didnt have My Friend as option...he would have stayed with that BATMEEZ wife forever.
These are the women who destroy other women's home. Such a pity.......
Re: Girls-would you marry a guy who leaves his wife & kids for you????
**I some time wonder who are these women? **who actually go after the married man not the already widowed/divorced ones but the ones who are married and have their own lives.
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There is a saying that I truly believe in, "Once a cheater, Always a cheater" So, other then not feeling comfortable with the fact that I am breaking some one's home. I am actually also gonna believe the fact that the guy can leave me for someone else too. so NO.