Girls, why can't you let go your brothers?

Pakistani girls have difficulty letting go their brothers after marriage.

Why is that?

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My sister might become happy as according to her, she would't have to listen to my Islamic lectures all night. I would tease her by telling her " InshAllah you would get a very religious husband who would tell you to do hijaab":D

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Hain ?????

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^^ exactly :D

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Cause we luvvvvvvvvv our brothers. That's why.

I think some of us interact more with our brothers (due to age) than our own father and that creates a very unique bond.

Its hard to see someone you have known your entire life just about, not speak to you as much anymore. You want to hold onto the memories of growing up and want that person to be there for you like they always were. Brother's are a real comfort to have around and so its difficult when they get married and move away. Although eventually you can learn to deal with it.

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^ tru sissters who have brothers more or less there age can never let go because of that bond and usualy when they have a problem they always go to there brother.....but thats what ive noticed but i could be wrong

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Absolutely, massive. I agree with you.

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thanks

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lol i luv my bro man
hez alwayz been there 4 me
hez alwayz been there 2 beat up desperate guyz that get after me
lmao yupp thas ma protective broooo

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wheres he going..:konfused:

arnt I supose to be going sumwhere..:konfused:

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over there somewhere...........

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:cb:

u got dat right..:phati:

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of course im everywhere so ill know where u have to be...lol

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I am glad my sister did not walk away from me as we grew up, got busy with our careers and spouses, etc. She has been there for me every single time that I am in need. I am glad she did not let go of me.

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You should CC that to her :-)

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When my older bro got married i was happy cos i got a really nice bhabi i cud do girly stuff with cos i neva had a sister. So i neva really had that issue of letting my bro go.

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brothers and sisters are always a blessing to have each other accessible, and they are actually more inspiring, too.

being helpful and helping are the key words here.

& not a selfish and possessing family member, who does not let go, as in holding on to the time and resources of their older or younger siblings.

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Fraudz
Beig around when one is in need is something else, being intrusive and possessive is totally different, its the later that i am pointing out.

Like many want to go out with Bhai, when he wants to enjoy some time alone with his wife, or expect a gift from brother whenever he buys something for his wife.

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That is such a general statement!!

What about the women who feel they need to control their husbands??

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Define "control". Is it wrong to expect that a man will make his immediate family a priority. He should be close to his sister, but she doesn't have to call every single day or expect that every time he purchases something for his wife or kids he should buy something bigger and better for her and her kids.