U liked her more than a friend.. she liked u more than a friend.. I suggest u look her up and propose straight-away! HOW can u even think treating a friend/potential gf like a sister?
She said "The relation we have; would you approve such a relation for your sister??"
BTW she was being possessive, she had my bank card/pin, my email passwords and stuff.
I never asked her for that stuff.
It seems she is emotionally attached to you already PM. If she is looking for you to be more then a friend to her then thats what it means. Girls can be somewhat idealistic and romantic at times...in some situations they actually bond with their partner via intimacy.
Anyway, if you were looking for only a friends with benefits type deal then you should cut her loose as soon as possible because otherwise you are asking for trouble and drama.
Much luck!
thanks!!!!
Girls always get emotionally attached. Hoping some thing would happen.
Till guy give that relation a name women call it "casual" "friend-ship"
While dying to get it some where.
I did cut her lose, I dont want to carry any dead(emotionaly) bodies.
the problem is that there seems to be a double standard- i.e. you feel it's ok for you to have a close relationship (even if it's platonic) with a girl, but if your sister did the same with a guy, you would not approve. I think you should live by the same standard as your sister. I would be really angry if my bro was being overprotective with me, while he was time passing- which nauzubillah I hope never happens, and I would just say "who are you to be telling me that".
Your friend I think wanted to know if you thought of her as a pastime or if you liked her. And if someone makes them selves accessible by always calling or hanging out, and you take advantage of that, then it's just as bad, because you are leading them on. Just because someone lets you treat them badly doesn't mean you should.
The way I see it, if you really want to ignore a guy/girl that is after you, it can be done- all you have to do is show no reaction to anything they're doing and be really annoyed. Most people's hearts are just not 100% into it, they like to complain about how someone won't leave them alone, but at the same time, they like the fact that someone wants them.
Thank you!!!
I agree its double standard. She still being there like she was selling her best years for less!!
arent fathers allowed to be protective? arent brothers? then why not a bf/husband? i think it only shows that they care. dont get being protective confused with being controlling. one can be protective without overstepping any boundaries.
hmmmmm good point. you know if I think about it now. where never stared at a guy while being with me. One I was on dead-bad terms with a dude. That dude happen to be in her circle too. She just shut him off.
Never had that controlling issu. matter of fact she use to tell me what to do.(good things)
hmmm and She use to take my suggestion how to write an email to a potential rishta and stuff.