Re: GIRLS!! Non-Virgin Bride DILEMMA!!
sadzz, we are talking about desis....
Apparently, you have spent too much time around gora people that you can't and don't understand how desi mind operates. This talk about honesty and open mindedness BS doesn't exist when it comes to issues like this.
You look good writing those kind of things... they are feel good comments that you can write and feel good about your self but sadly very little of it holds any water when other peoples expectations, feelings and traditions are concerned.
If something GOOD is about to happen you DON'T bring something BAD up to ruin it. That is just stupid and foolish and only those who are accustomed to 3 4 5 BFs and GFs before marriage would appreciate that.