We all do bad deeds during some part of our lives...so it is better to forgive those who want to change their lives for better....
Again, this girl must access herself physically. Believe me, it will turn a nightmare if her husband doesn't get pleasure...just forget bleeding for a moment here.......and they boy should tell this too through friends, etc whether he is healthy and fit.....or been into bad habits.....
Though you rephrased it, thanks, but you still arent making any sense.