I know man. But girls more concentrate on making up excuses. Rather silly ones. Its like breaking hubbs heart on first night what a present for new life.
I agree man,
But I think we shouldn't get mad at them for making excuses. We should rather think why are they making excuses? Why can't they just tell it like it is? I personally think, its because in our sociiety we've placed a very big burden of expectations on women. Things if boys do, would be acceptable or atleast forgivable or atleast understandable, but girls don't enjoy the same luxury. Girls have to be perfect to be accepted. Too many taboos for them. But eventually, they are humans and imperfect like us, thats why they fear if they tell the truth, they might be rejected by their families, inlaws, hubbies etc. Thats why they have to pretend tooo many things in order not to be rejected.
So I'd just say I'd try to get the fear out of her heart and would make her and myself more comfortable in sharing things with each other!