"being a great character" do u think great character is something little or opf no importance?
what will u prefer a rich, stable, someone you can look upto, but lacks character or someone who today may seem like little less but as you say character wise ok.
Money stability, position can all come and go. And if someone really is into you they must do everything to keep you happy.
but again depends on what you see in the marriage. its your call afterall.
Looking up to someone needn't be based on the level of education or age. It's about character and morals. So if the guy has the potential to be a good husband and has a personality the woman admires, then it's fine. But from your post it seems she does not have respect for him, so why is she even considering the marriage?
Of course just education or age or money are not determinants for marriage but they do hold importance. I dont think only character can make you look up to some one. It is definitely the MOST important thing but for cases where he is younger than you, doesn't it leave like a kiddish impression in your mind? or where his education is less, doesnt it bring in your mind that oh he wouldnt know this or he is too young to be familiar with this or what would he know? for finances, wouldnt it occur to you that i shouldnt demand this because he wouldnt be able to afford it?
What do boys think in such cases, where the girl is apparently in a stronger position worldly benefits wise? Does that leave a complex?
OR it all boils down to the fact that if you find a great character, all other determinants should go down to zero?