Girls Marriage during Education

[SaeedinPakistan]

Re: Girls Marriage during Education

@geminifromkhi

Thats why I said that girls shouldnt get married before completing their education, its neither fair to their husbands nor to their children.

My friend took the morning courses only, and took only one course each day. Thats about 3 hours in the university. Her husband had his own small business, so he used to leave for work after she was home. But obviously there were times when they both had to leave at the same time, entrusting the kid to the grandmother. I dont think it would have killed her to look after him on those rare occasions.

Getting married doesn’t seem to be the problem here. The problem is having kids too early in the marriage. Your argument would be valid in the old days when birth control wasn’t as reliable or accessible as it is today. Sure all kinds of birth control doesn’t work for everybody but with so much to choose from most people can find something that doesn’t give them too much trouble(nothing is perfect). No birth control works 100% of the time either but it’s better than not using any and saying, “It just happened, we didn’t plan it.” Of course it happened. That’s how it’s supposed to happen. If it didn’t happen the human race would not have survived past Adam and Eve.

You got the man, now can’t you wait a bit before you have kids.