Girls Marriage during Education

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Re: Girls Marriage during Education

@Paheli00

The city you friend lived in didn’t have daycare or nannies? No one in your friend’s family was willing to watch the baby? I am the first person to support the idea that a woman needs to get formal education. But that does not justify neglecting a baby that a woman chose to have. Unless the MIL agreed to babysit a infant/toddler BEFORE the nikah, there is no reason anyone should automatically expect a MIL to do it. In this story, it’s your friend who sounds like the witch for continuing to leave her baby even after knowing that the baby wasn’t being taken care of.

My friend belonged to a very well to do family, her husband wasnt that well off comparatively. Needless to say it was a love marriage. Her dad had only one condition for accepting the proposal: that her daughter will be allowed to complete her education. This was accepted by the seemingly doting MIL. The university was quite expensive, and her father was going to foot the bill.
My friend didnt even have to lift a finger in her house, but she did everything from mopping to laundry after marriage. Her father also bought them a car. I mean my friend was contributing SO MUCH to the marriage. After the death of her FIL, the MIL completely transformed and asked her to leave university. That is why she refused to look after her grandson, so that his suffering will make my friend leave her education.
As far as day care is concerned, she did ultimately found one. Her own family was in a different city. So now you tell me who is the witch here?