Re: Girl’s Income
I agree with you. I feel the same. Desi men want a wife who works full time, and who stays at the in laws place when they go to Pakistan. The in laws can say whatever things they want about the girl and her family but the girls has to keep quiet because “ammi naraz ho gain gee”. The girl has to be ready to keep the in laws at home because “who else will take care of them in their old age?” but God forbid if the girl expresses the same wish, unless it adds an extra benefit like the wife’s mom acting like a free baby sitter while the wife works full time. So basically its a slave who earns them extra money too.
I can’t even tell my in laws that my dad came to visit me from another country because they will get mad as its their son’s house and no one else has the right to come visit esp. the wife’s parents/ relatives.