Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out

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Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out

@VoLarki

Just what sara was saying about having no privacy and stuff... When we got married..hubby and his folks lived in a tiny 2 bedroom apt....a year later after using my money for down payment we bought a nice little house.... The in'laws got the master-bedroom... i didnt complain...i wanted to treat his folks like mine so i let them have the best of things...but my mil has decorated the whole house according to her taste..including furniture..and tiny little knick knacks...dishes... I dont feel its like my house..i feel like its her house...She doesnt like my taste in things.. Sher brags to everyone about how nicely she decorated the place...I think it looks like crap. Hubby only lives to please her. His excuse is that they are old and their every wish should be granted cuz they wont be here for long...

She has lived in large luxurious houses before in pak...Th*is is my first...I just wish i had a chance to decorate my house according to my taste... By the time i get that chance i'll be an old mil myself and my dil will probably say the same thing*.

you've just understood the whole problem of DIL-MIL relationship:D
look at your MIL, and remember as a desi woman from older time, she probably had been oppressed her WHOLE life!! the only hope for most women is to become old and marry her first son so that she can have a nice DIL...and finally enjoy some power;)....over her DIL:D