Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out
i will NOT live with In-laws. they can visit as often as they want.
I've lived for a large part away from relatives and I have also lived for a while in a joint family. I believe living with relatives can bring out the worst in people and there's just too much khichree....gich pich.....taak jhaank.....etc etc. there should be a certain "formality" even between relatives to keep relationships "sweet". later on if i have sons i wont expect them to be living with me either. Its possible to meet your in-laws every day...or a few days a week...instead of living with them 24/7 and not totally isolate them (in case they are old)