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@zobia

the guys parents are not agreeing for his marriage with you, will you still insist him to convince his parents? do you think all the effort worth it? i know the power of love can make you to many insane things, but dont you think you have to convince the guy for every single thing for the rest of your life? and in our culture where parents not only guide us but also (99%) protect relationships (e.g. if wife cant his husband of him coming late, then his wife can for sure ask him why is he doing that and stop doing it), do you think its good to marry where except for the guy, no one is willing to accept you. even if they accept you, but are not willing to help you in any way. (may be they will in near future, but only God knows how much time it will take).

ps. its not my story. at least three couples i know facing the situation.

I believe family"s (from the both sides) support and thier willingness is very important, specially in our culture. A Guy thinks that if he will send his parents to the girl’s home FORCEFULLY then he thinks that he has fulfilled his responsibility. His parents show LEAST interest in the proposal of his choice through different actions like not contacting to the girl’s parents straightly and expecting from the girl’s side that she would insist her parents to talk to the guy’s parents about the proposal (taakay baat barrhay),and I think girl’s parents MUST identify such behaviour and refuse simply, they also should not simply take such proposals seriously.