Re: Girls complaining about parents not listening to them
Parents bhi barre zaalim hote hain, if you like it or not what I say, but that is the truth. Why is the kid always the bad, always the wrong one?
I don't consider myself being someone special and doing better than my parents, but sometimes when you think it's wrong, it's simply wrong! My father always says "meyn tera pyo waan ke toon mera pyo hain?"...you just shut up, you don't want, but u have because uff naheen karna, baat maan ni hai, mar bi jao maan ni hai and I don't consider these people as my parents then, I consider them as enemies, as evils...
what are you supposed to do and this is why I don't understand my religion sometimes, this hurts me when I say but parents are treated as saints even if they ARE NOT infront of you...
Numb no one is saying that all parents are total saints and utter angels and are bilkul free from making mistakes. They are just as human as you. BUT they are still your parents and they have given more to us that we could ever give back to them. Ask someone who lost their mom or dad at a young age if they would not trade all the wealth in the world just to get them back. A man once did tawaf carrying his mother on his back because she could no walk and when he asked have I repaid her now for everything she has done for me, he was told that no you havent even repaid her for one kick that you gave her when she carried you in her belly. We cannot imagine everything our parents have done for us. Most parents in the world would not hesitate for a second to scarifice literally everything they have for the safety and comfort of their kids. Yes there are exceptions, there are always exceptions to everything in life. Yes there might be parents who abuse and neglect their children. But then what is goodness if its not to do good to others even when they dont do good to you. Someone's parents might not be fulfilling their duties as a parent, but this does not give the child the excuse to not fulfill their duty as a child. Because Allah SWT will not ask us if our parents treated us well, He will ask us if we treated them well. You are not to held accountable for the actions of anyone except yourself because you cant control how others treat you, but you can always control how you treat others. Your parents are not your enemies, they are your Jannah so never forget this