Re: Girls complaining about parents not listening to them
woh to hum kareinge hi tum fikar na karo
chalo ab jaa kar so jao!
Re: Girls complaining about parents not listening to them
JI zaroor soch samjh ker hi faisla karain gai
Re: Girls complaining about parents not listening to them
how did u know i was gion to sleep.
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u didnt hide any camera in ma room did u???
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Re: Girls complaining about parents not listening to them
Billi knows everything 
Re: Girls complaining about parents not listening to them
yeah i know everything
and now go and sleep
Re: Girls complaining about parents not listening to them
Parents bhi barre zaalim hote hain, if you like it or not what I say, but that is the truth. Why is the kid always the bad, always the wrong one?
I don't consider myself being someone special and doing better than my parents, but sometimes when you think it's wrong, it's simply wrong! My father always says "meyn tera pyo waan ke toon mera pyo hain?"...you just shut up, you don't want, but u have because uff naheen karna, baat maan ni hai, mar bi jao maan ni hai and I don't consider these people as my parents then, I consider them as enemies, as evils...
what are you supposed to do and this is why I don't understand my religion sometimes, this hurts me when I say but parents are treated as saints even if they ARE NOT infront of you...
Numb no one is saying that all parents are total saints and utter angels and are bilkul free from making mistakes. They are just as human as you. BUT they are still your parents and they have given more to us that we could ever give back to them. Ask someone who lost their mom or dad at a young age if they would not trade all the wealth in the world just to get them back. A man once did tawaf carrying his mother on his back because she could no walk and when he asked have I repaid her now for everything she has done for me, he was told that no you havent even repaid her for one kick that you gave her when she carried you in her belly. We cannot imagine everything our parents have done for us. Most parents in the world would not hesitate for a second to scarifice literally everything they have for the safety and comfort of their kids. Yes there are exceptions, there are always exceptions to everything in life. Yes there might be parents who abuse and neglect their children. But then what is goodness if its not to do good to others even when they dont do good to you. Someone's parents might not be fulfilling their duties as a parent, but this does not give the child the excuse to not fulfill their duty as a child. Because Allah SWT will not ask us if our parents treated us well, He will ask us if we treated them well. You are not to held accountable for the actions of anyone except yourself because you cant control how others treat you, but you can always control how you treat others. Your parents are not your enemies, they are your Jannah so never forget this
Re: Girls complaining about parents not listening to them
I think what we are dealing with here is the fact that some parents who have moved from Pakistan to Europe, USA and other western countries have not realized the cultural changes that have been going on in their own and their kids’ lives. Another factor is that the families back home in Pakistan doesn’t always let the immigrant parents let go of traditional thinking.
I have seen way too many cases where parents took their kids for summer vacations to Pakistan and got manipulated by the larger family in Pakistan and married off their kids to illiterate people from villages or cities. It is not just the immigrant parents from villages. I have seen many cases where the families were from larger cities like Lahore or Karachi. Most of those parents are not educated, seem to be reluctant to let go of their larger PK families fearing that they will loose them if they deny rishta for their daughters/sons.
When I grew up a lot of the teenager girls under education got married to their illiterate/less educated cousins in Pakistan. Thanks God, that this doesn’t happen very much now. I guess most parents are finally realizing the consequences of putting together two persons from two very different worlds. I have personally seen families go apart because marriges like that have failed.
It might not always be that easy for a young girl to resist against a large family. Only if both the parents support the girl, she wouldn’t have to bother about pressure from other people. But remember that parents can be manipulated by others which can result in parents pressurizing their daughters. I have seen way too many cases and cannot accept ppl saying how easy it is to say no and just ignore the whole deal.