u cant generalise lahori.
and PCG totally agree with you with the fact that men will prob wish down the track they did marry someone who could help out.
Is that much of an ego issue if the girl pays the bills now and then?
when did i say that? i have no problem if my wife made more than me. What i am saying is, you should marry someone for who he is not what he has or could bring in. would you rather be with a educated man, who is a dick to you or a man who isn't a doctor or whatever but would treat you like a queen and is very hard working, making decent money. Some ppl don't have luxury to go anywhere in life, doesn't they won't make good wives or husbands. I can understand if a man is not working, sit at home all day, doesn't bring in any money etc that makes sense.
Re: Girls and Education
lahori, I dont think any girl is saying pick the dick who makes a lot of money but doesn't treat you well.
Fact is, that if you were a lazy lafunga who played cricket all day instead of paying attention in school, you're likely to be a lazy lafunga as a hubby too, and you probably wont bring in as much money into the household as the overachiever nerd in school you sat next to who is now owning his own business and is more stable.
Women look for stability. Not excess money.
Ok, I lie. I think there are a lot of gold-diggers out there, because I mean, someone's gotta pay for the HSY joras. All 20 you buy annually for your endless parties year round.
But most girls are really looking for stability. They want someone who can make the rent/mortgage payments and can afford some decent health insurance on her kids.
The lazy lafunga has problems with that. Smarter kids tend to do better with that sort of stuff.
Now, yeah, some of the smarter kids have poor morals and will cheat and be sleazy, etc.
Re: Girls and Education
okay, i never said if you are doctor, marry someone who has no education. To me it doesn't seem like a good idea b/c gap is too huge.
Now, ppl want to marry someone who has education, fine. Nothing is wrong with that. But what i don't understand is why a doctor has to marry a doctor or someone who makes the same amount of money or more. Why couldn't a doctor marry a jr. high school teacher? he/she makes less money and mostly likely didn't had to work as hard as a doctor. But a teacher has what you are looking besides that money part.. why not go for it? what i am trying to say is what are teachers less desirable compare to doctors?? has to be money.. cuz teaching a very highly respected profession.
i have heard women say things like.. he has everything, i just wish he had a better job. What's wrong with his job?? nothing, but i want a man who makes as much as me or more than me.
why?
like a poster earlier replied to my msg.. said something liek.. i would rather marry a rich and be unhappy or something like that.. like wtf