Thank you i agree with this :)...been trying to say that ...
I get extremely pissed off when I hear girls saying they're not planning on working after finishing their degrees. What is the point wasting your parents money then!? Why bother going to private school or to university then when all you want to do is sit at home?
Fine if you want to stay at home for a while to look after kids when they are young but what will they do when the kids start going to school?
There are so many options available as well if working full time is too much. You can work part time, help out with a charity/other organization, work from home. Why anybody would want to just cut themselves off from society and make rotis all day despite having a decent education is beyond me.
I've worked bloody hard for this degree and there is no way I am giving up my hard earned job after marriage. I understand that when children come into the equation, my career will need to take a back seat. But that should only be for a few years, fingers crossed.
I get extremely pissed off when I hear girls saying they're not planning on working after finishing their degrees. What is the point wasting your parents money then!? Why bother going to private school or to university then when all you want to do is sit at home?
Fine if you want to stay at home for a while to look after kids when they are young but what will they do when the kids start going to school?
There are so many options available as well if working full time is too much. You can work part time, help out with a charity/other organization, work from home. Why anybody would want to just cut themselves off from society and make rotis all day despite having a decent education is beyond me.
I've worked bloody hard for this degree and there is no way I am giving up my hard earned job after marriage. I understand that when children come into the equation, my career will need to take a back seat. But that should only be for a few years, fingers crossed.
finally i can see minority here .. really feeling good to see you guys and and your approach towards education and life :)
I get extremely pissed off when I hear girls saying they're not planning on working after finishing their degrees. What is the point wasting your parents money then!? Why bother going to private school or to university then when all you want to do is sit at home?
Fine if you want to stay at home for a while to look after kids when they are young but what will they do when the kids start going to school?
There are so many options available as well if working full time is too much. You can work part time, help out with a charity/other organization, work from home. Why anybody would want to just cut themselves off from society and make rotis all day despite having a decent education is beyond me.
I've worked bloody hard for this degree and there is no way I am giving up my hard earned job after marriage. I understand that when children come into the equation, my career will need to take a back seat. But that should only be for a few years, fingers crossed.
Just asking a question, nothing personal.
What if your man wants to have more than 1 or 2 kids? Lets say, if you do have a kid, how long will you stay at home b4 you go to work? how long b4 you decide to have another kid b/c that would mean another back seat to your career.
Why get pissed off at someone who doesn't want to have a career just like why get pissed off at someone who is career minded. Each to their own i suppose. It's about being happy.
Just asking a question, nothing personal.
What if your man wants to have more than 1 or 2 kids? Lets say, if you do have a kid, how long will you stay at home b4 you go to work? how long b4 you decide to have another kid b/c that would mean another back seat to your career.
Why get pissed off at someone who doesn't want to have a career just like why get pissed off at someone who is career minded. Each to their own i suppose. It's about being happy.
okay there is one thing that you need to udnerstand the concept of this thread.
First of all, I am not or anyone supporitng this concept is saying that they are not gona have kids or something that you are posing.
We all are talking about the concep tof getting marriage. since most of the some girls ( i would not say most of the girls after this thread ) get education just for hell of it .. to get good rishta ..
our point of view is that if you have better education then why don't you contribute .. even if you have 4-5 kids .. .. you can start your career in 35-40 .. whatever man .. its not the point how many kids you have .. the point is are you wasting your education or not ..
Just asking a question, nothing personal.
What if your man wants to have more than 1 or 2 kids? Lets say, if you do have a kid, how long will you stay at home b4 you go to work? how long b4 you decide to have another kid b/c that would mean another back seat to your career.
Why get pissed off at someone who doesn't want to have a career just like why get pissed off at someone who is career minded. Each to their own i suppose. It's about being happy.
It pisses me off because they are wasting their parents money. One girl I know goes to a private school that her parents pay £12k a year for. It pisses me off because they are not making any valuable contribution to society, this is why our home land is in such a state because of this mentality. It's fine if you don't want a high flying career, but do something, anything, with your life besides just staying at home and cooking/cleaning. Come on, how much effort does that really take?
Re the children, that is a personal question. But I don't mind answering it. My other half does want 11 children so he can have his own cricket team but that's not going to happen (!). I don't want to have more children than we can provide for comfortably. I plan on going back to work part time when the kid is around 2 and can go to nursery or probably before that if I get any help from the in laws. If I wasn't doing medicine then I'd probably take 4-5 years out completely but it's not really feasible to do that as a doctor :/
okay there is one thing that you need to udnerstand the concept of this thread.
First of all, I am not or anyone supporitng this concept is saying that they are not gona have kids or something that you are posing.
We all are talking about the concep tof getting marriage. since most of the some girls ( i would not say most of the girls after this thread ) get education just for hell of it .. to get good rishta ..
our point of view is that if you have better education then why don't you contribute .. even if you have 4-5 kids .. .. you can start your career in 35-40 .. whatever man .. its not the point how many kids you have .. the point is are you wasting your education or not ..
I understand the concept of this thread. Question popped in my head lol so i asked
It pisses me off because they are wasting their parents money. One girl I know goes to a private school that her parents pay £12k a year for. It pisses me off because they are not making any valuable contribution to society, this is why our home land is in such a state because of this mentality. It's fine if you don't want a high flying career, but do something, anything, with your life besides just staying at home and cooking/cleaning. Come on, how much effort does that really take?
Re the children, that is a personal question. But I don't mind answering it. My other half does want 11 children so he can have his own cricket team but that's not going to happen (!). I don't want to have more children than we can provide for comfortably. I plan on going back to work part time when the kid is around 2 and can go to nursery or probably before that if I get any help from the in laws. If I wasn't doing medicine then I'd probably take 4-5 years out completely but it's not really feasible to do that as a doctor :/
Makes sense.
I don't think many ppl nowadays want more than 2 kids lol.
A lot of women think, it's better to be home with your kids than sent them to day care etc. I think i read somewhere that child need his mother the most for first 7 years.
I don't think many ppl nowadays want more than 2 kids lol.
A lot of women think, it's better to be home with your kids than sent them to day care etc. I think i read somewhere that child need his mother the most for first 7 years.
Yeh, try telling that to my other half!
Well the kids need to start pre-school at 4-5 anyway. And actually it is quite good for the child to interact with other children and have some structured activities in their lives from a young age. All my nieces and nephews started pre-school at 2 years (even though their mothers are housewives) and they are all brilliant.