when did i say that? i have no problem if my wife made more than me. What i am saying is, you should marry someone for who he is not what he has or could bring in. would you rather be with a educated man, who is a dick to you or a man who isn’t a doctor or whatever but would treat you like a queen and is very hard working, making decent money. Some ppl don’t have luxury to go anywhere in life, doesn’t they won’t make good wives or husbands. I can understand if a man is not working, sit at home all day, doesn’t bring in any money etc that makes sense.