Just asking a question, nothing personal.
What if your man wants to have more than 1 or 2 kids? Lets say, if you do have a kid, how long will you stay at home b4 you go to work? how long b4 you decide to have another kid b/c that would mean another back seat to your career.
Why get pissed off at someone who doesn’t want to have a career just like why get pissed off at someone who is career minded. Each to their own i suppose. It’s about being happy.