i dont see why u need to stop her from doing her masters..
its about self satisfaction...
u work or not, thats different..
but u should study as much as u can, and what is feasbile.. for ur own self!..
ure in a business.. Alhamdulilah its going great.. but business has its own risk.. tomorrow if something GOD FORBID goes a little unwell.. atleast her degree can come to use!..
marriage can wait for a bit, and if not.. well she can study after marriage too!
i agree its her own decision her own life...and a masters is usually a year...u cant wait a year??? come on seriously.....
Why are you in such a hurry to get married? You have Inshallah the rest of your life to get married and settle down and have kids with her. Its seems like she isent ready to settle down yet, so dont push her.Let her finish her education first. Master is usally just one til 2 years. As you said she is already doing her master, so time will pass so fast that you wont even notice it.
I think education is really important to have.U never know what life might bring you. So if you have a good education,you can always fall back on it.
Why are you in such a hurry to get married? You have Inshallah the rest of your life to get married and settle down and have kids with her. Its seems like she isent ready to settle down yet, so dont push her.Let her finish her education first. Master is usally just one til 2 years. As you said she is already doing her master, so time will pass so fast that you wont even notice it.
I think education is really important to have.U never know what life might bring you. So if you have a good education,you can always fall back on it.
but death does not wait for a masters degree...it comes anytime. what to do then?
but death does not wait for a masters degree...it comes anytime. what to do then?
Thats true. But i dont think you should get married unless you are ready for it, no matter how short life is. Being married isent easy at all. It takes alot of hard work, committment and compromising all the time to make it work.
If you arent ready for it in the first place, than it will be more difficult to adjust and make it work.
how far is she in her studies? Like how much time does she have left? I don't think you should be confused..if you're serious about her and want to be with her then you'll wait.
WERENT U AN ACCOUNTANT CP! wth! so yea....if she wants to have her masters wats wrong with it? she wants to make the most of her life before u gets to the kids and all that part so let her. Whats the hurry? and if you cant seem to agree with it then you two are on a different chapter.
NEVER EVER come between a woman & her education!!!!!
for the following reasons:
-the kids u dream to have will have a big support if their mom is well educated and hold her head up high and say shes well educated instead of saying i cnt suggest u wat career path to choose cuz my husband never let me do all tht.
-you knew who she was,her nature bfr falling in love & if thts wat she wants to do..thts her!! xcept her n all her wishes thts cald love..
-GOD FORBID tomorrow sumthing rong happens n the weight n financial responsibility has to be shared or worse all on her shoulder atleast shell know she has the capability
-every woman has the right so educate herself, discover herself...dosnt mean we abandon our home responsibilities instead it jus means we live life in all aspects!
-if she wants a hi-fi life u r lucky atleast shes a woman who wants something frm herself,frm her life..we get just ONE shot at life if we have the resources to fullfill our dreams i say go for it!!
" want to get married, have kids, u know settle down.. "
this happens in fairy tales...life has more hidden dynamics...ek admi jab educated ho to uski education ghar chalaney ke liye kaam ati hai but agar ek larki educated ho to uski generations is world mein kuch acha contribute karengi..!!!
love is when u let the person u love be whoever they wana be thts y its unconditional :)
many ppl know here i have dated my bf for 10yrs now the ONLY reason we are not marrying is tht i wana become something,have an established career n thn get married..if my situation demands i might give up on my career later but atleast when im 50yrs n look back at my life i wont feel meine sirf ghar per beth kar bachey paida kiye or kahana pakaya...jahan jahan hosaka i made my dreams come true! support her totally!!!!!!
"but death does not wait for a masters degree...it comes anytime. what to do then?
masters might be a year or 2 but life is short!!!!!!!!! "
Allah na karey CP tumhein kaunsi disease huwi hai tht ur only valid reason fr her not studying n giving up all her dreams is tht u think ke tum agley do saal mein shayad marjao..kitne loog bagir pyaar ke marjatey hai atleast u had someone who loved u!!!
SUPPORT HER PLEASEEEEEEEE SUPPORT HER..thts love dude!!!!!
cp,bro then marry someone who is FA pass so u can control her the way u want to. :p
ps. u know i like to study all my life. i want to specialize in physics and architecture. inshaALLAH i will. Ameen
Really backward thinking and who are you to judge girls who are FA pass ??
I think an FA pass girl who is a home maker and does a good upbringing of her children and takes good care of her husband is making a far bigger contribution than some high-headed rights-obsessed PhD girl who does nothing but brings home a few bucks at the cost of children.
