A friend of mine got Nikkahfied when he was 18. After that he completed his education and now he is a successful banker. Same with Bahbi. I think attributing shaadi with education is a western approach where you can get your needs fulfilled even before marriage. We have adopted western culture and norms so much that this common Islamic practice seems like a foreign idea to us. I personally feel that getting married earlier serves a way better purpose than later. Please do not consider marriage as a prison for women where her life gets stagnant. Even in western culture its very common that after marriage one spouse works and the other one goes to school. I always find these people more mature, organized and focused in their approach.
Spoken like a true brother.
@ my op,
I don’t have a girlfriend. Alhamdulillah I am engaged and didn’t need any advice. I created this thread with a fictional or common desi scenario to see what the replies will be like. If you wish to continue with your opinions and debate, feel free 