I agree with Sahar. InshAllah when I have kids, I am going to strictly to enforce the “no dating” rule when they are teenagers. But I will also tell them (when they are old enough to understand better) that when the time comes for them to find a life partner… that I would be supportive. My fiance and I will set a strong example of neither one of us dated while we were in high school or even undergrad. And the only “people” we ever dated was each other .. that is because we took the whole thing very seriously and only got emotionally involved with someone we knew we would be with forever. This also meant getting our parents involved at a very early point… not going behind their backs.