I think everyone is a bit confused so let me clarify. Complimenting her/Making her laugh; All that has already been done. Its just that NOW she is acting cold and does not talks about anything else other than studies. And no I am not going to go and tell her I like her and lets go out. I know for a fact (based on my interactions with her) that it will not work. Rather its a perfect recipe for a chamaat:D
Bottomline: She likes me or not, I am going to try one last time. And I need your advice on what that last talk should be. If she shows even a bit of interest Ill continue otherwise back off as its already too much. Should I ask her for a coffee or a study session or should I just call to thank her or (insert your suggestion here which does not involves kidnapping or tickling or sorts :D ) ?
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No, don't ask her for coffee, because this hasn't worked yet.
Last thing that you can do is, just do or say something like she gets this impression that now you will not be coming to her again. It can be a "thank" too! This thing may work.. till now, she knows, you will come and come AND come again.. once you show, now its all over and you won't be needing her help anymore, I think then it can make her think that she should take some step. If still she stays quiet, then I am sorry Bro.. she is not interested in you!!
I guess the OP needs to take time to know whether the girl likes him or not.
Guys usually give lots of signs to a girl to show their interest in them. Asking lots of personal questions, asking about future plans including marriage, sharing their own future plans, telling a girl that he is currently single, sharing about family etc is an important way to know what a girl thinks about a guy and conveying your own interest to the girl. When you both become more open to each other, you gradually bridge the gap and be in a comfortable position to ask her out.
OP only seems to have the chance to see her for studies purpose. If he can take a step forward and add her on facebook, add her on email, send her forward sms etc, it will improve their friendship. Try to spend more time with her and get to know her more. If you cannot spend more time with her, try to get her approval for more telephonic and chat contact with her in order to get more chances to get to know her. Once you get to know her more, you will be in a better position to decide whether you really love her and whether she really likes you. Only then you will be in a better position to decide whether to proceed with this relationship or keep it only as friendship.
^ can't you joke around and ask her why she is being cold? does she say something or is it the way she acts? was it something you said/did to make her feel uncomfortable? tell her you really value her time and friendship and appreciate her helping you so much and you want to do something in return....like take her our for coffee or ice cream or give her something like a thank you card with chocolates :).
maybe her family is strict, etc so she is worried about going out and being seen with you. or maybe she was in a bad relationship and is just scared of what could potentially happen.
is she really shy? do you know any of her friends? are you facebook friends?
do you guys meet at school or the library for study sessions? maybe you can meet at a coffee place or restaurant?
I dont know. I asked her out for coffee and she agreed. We talked for around 2 hours when we met. A week later I asked her if she wanted to meetup again and she went all ballistic on me. Said I should grow up and stop asking out every other girl I meet (Ive never asked anyone out before), that she would never go out with me and how could I even think I had a chance with her. I said ok fair enough so why did you agree to go out last time and she said she thought it was my way of thanking her for her help therefore she agreed last time around.
I dont know. I asked her out for coffee and she agreed. We talked for around 2 hours when we met. A week later I asked her if she wanted to meetup again and she went all ballistic on me. Said I should grow up and stop asking out every other girl I meet (Ive never asked anyone out before), that she would never go out with me and how could I even think I had a chance with her. I said ok fair enough so why did you agree to go out last time and she said she thought it was my way of thanking her for her help therefore she agreed last time around.
I feel for you bro, what a female dog. Girls I tell you...smh