Girl Problem

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Re: Girl Problem

@queen_24

My point is, if you were too much interested in her, you would have never said “Or I move on”
if you are the one who can let go anything you like/ love so easily then sorry but you are not so strong.. What I want to say is, if you are interested, you can make it out (unless she isn’t engaged or nikahfied). Like, she is not a piece of cloth hanging in a market and, when you know, you can’t afford it, you move on! she should be really important for you, and I think, you should make some ways out to get her instead givingup and moving on!!

Rest, yes I believe, trusting someone these days has become really difficult, one think thousand times before getting into a real serious relationship. It might be a reason, she is reacting cold because even if you have true feelings towards her, she still doesn’t know.. and she is being like this only because she still thinks you as another ordinary boy.. your continuous offers for coffee/ tea is not a good idea.. chichoray boys do two things in the beginning.. 1. can we have tea? or anything related to this question and second, sending Islamic SMS at the initial stage
Dont react stupid.. just be patient.. meet her, talk her, build your own repu, act wise, be wise, don’t everytime go for “study” thing and last… give her some space.. see, next time she will come to you with her studies problem and would want to ask from you!!

She isn’t engaged/married. Committed to someone? That I do not know but seems unlikely. There are some details which I cant share here due to privacy reasons but as I said before this last month, all I did was think about her. It affected everything and now when I look back at the last month, I feel that I really wasted my time when I should have taken concrete action. What if she is not even interested? It would mean I wasted my time for nothing. As I said before, I cant share all the details but there is a lot going on in my life at the moment and sometimes I feel I should have been more upfront. In case you are wondering yes I had friends (girls) before, never a relationship and never before have I liked a girl this way before. I am already giving her the space. Havn’t contact her in the last 15 days and Ive never sent her a single un-necessary/forward text, despite severe pressure from friends. Please suggest in clear terms what I should do next?