If two people are really close…and they like a person more than just friends and they are 99% sure that the person feels the same way.
who should tell the other first?
wot I mean to say is that…typically its seen only right for the guy to FIRST tell. does it really matter?
would the guys prefer it if girls confessed first…or other way round?
also how do girls feel about this too?
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
Doesn't matter, I did it with my current husband, with my first husband he did it. Sometimes it is just right and you know it. I even asked the man who is now my husband out on the first date. You should have seen the smile.
I guess it depends on how secure you are, why should the guys have all the pressure?
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
tell him how you feel. I made the first move
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
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thats great 
so basically it makes no difference. ok :k:
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
Majestic...are you a guy or girl?
Maddy :) which would u prefer though? u saying it or the girl?
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
I made the move. It was a stupid move now that i think about it, but im still surprised at how gutsy i was to admit it. but i think whoever feels it shud say it. guys who think less of girls coz they’re assertive are idiots anyway 
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
It should always be the girl, in my case, or it will go no where. :D
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
Sara....do you think u did the right thing by making the first move?
ashtray...Im surprised about ur comments. r u a guy? and why should it be the girl?
Maddy....why u put a full stop there?
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
Because I don't want to talk about it anymore.
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
M_S - wow, twice speechless, must be a record
Majestic is a full fledged woman who is happily marrying and moving too far away from me so I can't go see her at least once just to look at the person whose posts make me laugh a lot :)
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
Well I made a lot of mistakes handling it, but telling em how i felt wasn't necessarily the wrong move. Whatever circumstances, i still wud have told him
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
tell me at least this much. would u prefer girl telling u …or would u prefer to tell her in your own time…when ur ready?
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
great…so far the ones where the girl has made the first move has been successful. interesting and great news:)
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
dont worry about it. you’ll meet the one whos for you one day insha-allah great that u had the courage to tell.
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
I'm a girl! I made the first move and now I'm marrying him :D
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congratulations:)
and all the best in the future. best wishes
Re: Girl or Guy. who should tell first?
If you really care about someone and have genuine feelings for them, then you should tell the other person. Fear of rejection is what stops most people from confessing their true feelings. Rather than having regrets or thinking 'what if' for the rest of your life, just take the risk and tell the other person. Worse thing that will happen is that they will say they aren't interested. You'll hurt for a few days, a few weeks, possibly a few months, but your life will go on and you will survive. At least you will know where you stand, and chances are, you will have no regrets.
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^ great advice. thanks :)