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Demesne, you have to keep the hubby on the toes, otherwise he'll take you for granted.
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PCG, what if she fails to keep him on his toes, then what.
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demesne, u have to keep him on ur heart, if u dont want him to take u for granted, simple as that
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depends... i have done alot of ghar ka kaam.. having no sister.. I had to do alot of ghar ka kaam to help ammi out .. so i am used to cooking quick khana (keema, daal and etc) and cleaning (ie. vacumming, dusting, taking garbage out etc)
so yeah i wouldn't mind helping out my wife around the house :) after all the more i help her the more help i will get back ;) hehe :)
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he might get bored and either leave or cheat on her.
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young lady, you’ve completely got us wrong. Why would we leave someone who is willing to do everything around the house so we can sit in the couch and watch football.
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^ coz she's boring and starts looking like the servant of the house rather than this hot bombshell who you'd like to bang
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good point. I can imagine cheating on a wife like that, but rest assured. I will NEVER leave her.
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Wait you'll cheat on her but never leave her...you might as well feed her poison than have her living in so much shame and humiliation...woudl it be ok if she cheated on you ..but i promise she'll never leave you :p
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ofcourse not dear. Do you think I am crazy or something. Why would I live with someone who is sleeping with another man. Infidelity in men is a commonplace thing. But woman should always be loyal to her husband.
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Atlanta...a marriage is a bond between 2 EQUALS..so whatever applies to you shoudl apply to her..either have a free for all or don't have one. :p
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Lk, I was just kidding. I can’t believe you actually thought that I hold these beliefs. 
Relax, I will treat my wife with utmost respect.
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Atlanta...if I wasn't kiddin back I would;nt be showing you my tongue ;)
:p
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You are insinulating that “making” your hubby “work” is an inferrence or a result a lack of love for your partner. Maybe it is becasue you’ve been brought up in pakistan.
If I am expected or am through my own wants persuing a full time job in a career of my choice certain chores need to be shared out. Through love as opposed to a lack of it.
I am sure he doesnt want me to drop down with exhaustion.
I think its a culture thing.
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chup karo!! 
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Ravage you sound overworked hun :D
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AAAAAAAAAAA tumne mera post phirsey edit kiya! tumsey hi abh dishes karaoon gi ravage!
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aur hiccy baby, yeah its all abt where u are brought up. pakistan mey agar mard kaam karay to its a thes to his izzat at least in my eyes. no way im putting my janu baby in that position regardless of me working outside
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im innocent!!
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and janu baby is meant to be taken in a rhetorical sense 
(yes im being presumptuous)
LK.. nothing more than I can handle