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my father helps out with the cooking sometimes. he thinks he cooks better than my mom. teases her about her cooking, etc. its cute.
And again, this shows which men are intelligent and which men are not. You want to have some romance and shomance in the bed with the wify? Help her with the cooking and while cooking flirt with her. Or during ironing or washing clothes or making the bed, or whatever. She'll be like putty in your arms after 3 hours.
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^ yesh true...a man in an apron is the ultimate turn on :D
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:D interesting responses :D
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Tum merey ghar kab ayeen thien ??? 
Agar ayee bhi thi tu public main announce karney ki kia zaroorat thi 
Yes I feel quite embarassed when girls see us like smiling and eyes saying
" how cute, he is serving us 
"
I have been doin all the work inside the house and outside aswell. Serving guest is so easy. shifting complete house furniture of friend’s house to new one is hell of a task. Working like Dhiarri ke mazdoor. 
. The after the whole shifting the ladies come and say * yeh sofa yahan theek nahi lag raha, shift it to next room*
You can find lots of guys who do house work, but you can not find a single girl who can pick Chawaloon ki 2 mun ki bori and drop it on 2nd floor
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Committed men are always irresitible as it is, so when she tells her saheliyaan about Mr. Wonderful helping around the house, the "cho shweet" add-on only enhances ur image in their mind.
Time must not be wasted at this point. Spend a day (or a minute) or two on deciding who's the hottest of the group. Strike up conversation (meetha 40%, distant/aloof 45%, remaining 15% convo with her not-so-hot-friend standing next to her). Sprinkle with (max.) 2 compliments, one mild joke followed by a hardy-har-har witty comment towards end. Excuse urself in gentlemanly ways while her bateesi is still khip-khipping from ur funny comment and bid ur adieu for the night.
Hottie and plain jane will discuss ur qualities upon ur exit. 'Coincidentally' meet up with her a week or so later and let things fall in place like a game of tetris stuck in easy mode. Time for some hulla gulla with the new bird.
Old bird now gets jealous/ticked off. Re-evaluate. If new bird more promising than old bird, laga ur preferred "it's not you, it's me" baazi on oldie. If old bird still numba one gal, tell new bird it's morally wrong to cheat sheat and we can remaind friends etc., flowers/chocolates/whatvr works for original bird followed by a few days raazi karna/manana phase. Reap benefits of make-up err.. "bhangra" when all is back to good and dandy.
Rinse. Repeat. At next opportunity.
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irem ,
I havent read all the replies. I think you were lying when you said you studied in the US ad now live in Karachi. I think you live in Toba Taik Singh. Allah ki bandi, these days its quite common for men to help out with the house work. The guy in your point no 2, might not have any sisters to help out? Or its ok in thier household to help out, as is in ours. All my chachus who grew up in Pak and 2 of them still live there, help out the all the time. So does my father and bro. And i think its cute that they do so, plus it buys us some more quality time with each otehr instead of the girls sweating in the kitchen or doing laundary and the men in the house, watching Tv and drinking chai.
Think abt it sometime: its not that bad!!!
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I think its nothing wrong if a husband help his wife with the houshold or iron his wife clothe or something. If i'm sick then he cooks for me and sometime's he iron my clothe.
I think its a good thing. My chacho instead he do nothing in the houshold he does'nt help
his wife bas order dete hai ke yeh karo woh karo i hate such this like of man's.
And a man dont have to feel ashamed to helping his wife.
Nilu.
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Jokes aside.
I love to cook and am a better cook than my American and Pathan wife. I do cook in US but due to male chauvinistic rituals in Kaka-Khel I have to act like a real man and abstain from helping in the household. But in U.S I cook, clean, do dishes, change diapers, give tubbies etc. Ironing I don't know, I have a laundry service so they pick up dress clothes, my wife does the wash but sometimes I help with that as well. This is in addition to running my 7 7-11s and 11 cabs.
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Irem U dont have to announce that men of ur family help out with the house work ..there is no need for for but if ppl will know u dont have to be ashamed or think what they will say ..un ko kya takleef 
.. I think all guys should help with house work ..:k:.. ..
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I know this aunty whos sick n she have 3 sons n i have always seen her sons n hubby helping her out with house work n i really appreciate it , i think its nice ..why should one care abt what others think r say ..ppl will always talk no matter what so we shouldnt really care.
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My dad helps with the dishes and the ironing, and the only reason he doesnt cook is becasue mama wont let him, hes a good cook though
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ullu.
Irem theres a difference.Theres nothing wrong with a guy doing house work. However I have seen some men ,literally slave away while the wife orders him around! That was kinda pathetic. Middle ground folks, middle ground!
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im TOTALLY against men working. ironing at least. and serving sorry thats not happening. cooking sure, thats okay..kabhi kabhi chalta hay. dusting and cleaning no. vacuuming shayed agar vacuum heavy sa hay.. pata nahi. im not okay with it. brothers ko sath sath kaam karwao fine. biwi and hubby mey, id probably pamper my hubby to death. but then again:) i wuv my hubby to be
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men are for making money so women can hire domestic help.
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I am totally against anyone workign personally, we all should have robots
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I think it's really good to help around your wife at home. Not almost everything but you know halka phulka kaam.
When it comes to religion and what Prophet SAW used to do I think uss ke baad culture and society doesn't really matter much. Simple. I hate it when people still keep running after the cultural crap even when a religious explanation has been given. Although most of our desi guys don't like working around in the house. They suck at it coz amma's kay ladlay jo hotay hain so har kaam amma karti hain unn ke. I think parents ko thori boht aadat dalni chahiye larkon ko kaam karanay ki ghar main bhi. Yeh baat kahien nahi likhi that women are supposed to do all the house work and men just work outside, eat, watch tv and sleep <= Which, according to men, is still a lot.
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i wish my brothers were like that 
I think it depends on how u r brought up, like my mom freaks out when i tell my brothers to do things for me but then again there are things i make my brothers do for me like getting my cars oild changed, getting it washed, takin the garbage out and like fixing things
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make sure the femi-nazis in this forum (PCG) doesn’t see your post.
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^
HAHA I was thinking the same, how did that one get passed PCG.
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double that
besides, the only thing men should be doing is watch tv & drink lussi...ok perhaps a little more, make love too
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:k::k::k: