The guy works 14 hours a day so you could afford to keep your luxurious lifestyle after the wedding. Try working 14 hours a day first and see if you have any time or energy left to eat and shower- let alone praise someone. If you want all the love and praises then tell him you don’t want him working 14 hours a day and that it’s perfectly fine with you to live on a little less. If you can’t do that then lower your expectations.