Re: Getting the point across to parents that now is not the time…
Awww Sadiyah 
You want it bad enough, (or don’t in this case) then keep saying no, however tiring it is..would you really want to end up being in a miserable marriage just coz ur parents said so? And liek someone said before, deep down, ure parents love you and want to c you happy, so no they wudnt wnat u in a miserable marriage..Most importantly, you CANNOT give up your views on religion and hwat you believe in. If you can compromise on everything, do NOT compromise on religion just for some guy or his mother or your mother.
I’ve been told too, to change my views, to be more accomodating, and while I know that compromise is a big thing in relationships, there are a few things that i do NOT want to compromise on, however ridiculous n “maaadraarrrnnn” it may make me look to others. I know the things that can go wrong in certain situations and all I get is “Allah de sapurd”. I don’t believe in going into things blindly and then just praying for the best. I ask questions, i like to find out information, its my life, I have a right to know. I firmly believe tht Allah helps those who help themselves. 