I’m sure some or many of you must’ve been in a situation where parents are forcing you to get engaged/married to either Mr. ABC or Mr. XYZ because they see a whole bunch of good things in them. According to your parents’ standards these guys are very good and don’t see why you should ever turn them down.
You on the other hand aren’t interested for one reason or another. The reasons could vary from you not wanting to get engaged married anytime soon, to having someone else in mind, or thinking that neither may be suitable due to the difference of beliefs, or because of the long-term/short-term goals or plans that they may have. However, they are adamant that now is the time and the further you turn down people/delay it, the older you’ll get and the fewer chances you’ll have of finding someone good.
How have those who have been through it dealt with the situation? How do you get your parents to give you a few years or to let you make the final decision?
Generally I’ve noticed guys get off the hook far more easily than females, as there’s supposedly a magic number after which things aren’t so good anymore for females.
If you have someone in mind, then talk to that person,a nd tell ur parents and just hope that the guy u have in mind isnt just being a jerk and playing around with you 
My first impulse would be to tell you tht ur in ure late 20s (im assuming) its time to grow a backbone and get a good job and career n all that.. but i also know the parents being sick, the guilt and all that crap.. hope everythin wrks out for ya