If an unrequited relationship just slipped away, how to cope with the sense of dismay and loss?
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very tough and will take ages…
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so hard... no cure for that...
unless u find some one who give more love and respect than...
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icecream:k:
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*sigh
dushwari its a dushwaar raasta
for some it takes a moment for others months or years... and for some never.
Unfortunately sometimes life throws fireballs at you and most of us cant handle this one well. Its a slow healing process since this wound takes a long time to get healed. There will be sleepless nights, there will be very rainy nights as well but in a long run you get over it. The best way to look at it is- after all that pain and misery you become a little stronger then you were before and life goes on.
The world is not cruel people are unfortunately. What you do is start looking at the bigger picture look at your life as a big huge book with numerous chapters. Sometimes few names are mentioned just in few chapters and sometimes few people are either on your footnote or header -;). Those who remained there through out the ups and down are worth crying for - dont you think? - So moral of the lecture is- don't ruin or cry over few chapters they do leave a scar but in this day and age even those are removeable.
remember footnote and header part ;)
Sometimes its nice to read your own book and smile through the things one has gone through. Life is beautiful - Allah created too many amazing things appreciate them and hug the life.....
when life becomes all gray - mourn as much as you want - sometimes its nice to cry while walking in rain because no one can really see it. Crying on your pillow leaves signs of depression. After that mourning session get up and Start painting your life ALL over again. - its a beautiful task :~)
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candy.....chocolate...
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Oh gawd it's soooooo hard to get over someone once a relationship ends....especially if that person hurt you really bad. My advice would be to keep yourself busy so you don't think about him/her too much. Get busy with work, hanging out with friends, a new hobby etc....anything.
But the best "healer" is time. For some people it takes months, and for others it can takes years....but after a certain period of time passes, the intensity of the feelings will decrease on its own.
Of course, it always helps if you meet a new person who treats you good.
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don't* try *getting over it, sadness can be beautiful, learn from it, just keep from doing something stoopid.
when I said don't try I meant pick up and do something uve never done before, like a new hobby, try getting feedback on how it is going so that you feel like going on with it, focus on some other aspect in your life and work towards making it how you'd like it to be at that point in time. never regret what happened, realize it's made you more complete, cos if it was good, it's good, if it was bad, it's made you stronger.
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there are more fish in the see - bigger and better :D
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^ lol
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I agree. Get over him and find a new one.
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Thanks sakhis. You're always neat to draw support from.
I wish I can get over him and him and him and many more to come
They're so ROTTEN TO THE CORE.
That would be my revenge... replace them, misplace them.
- Those nuts are less than honorable, who aren't even half of the men, to say a good bye, to let it be known what GOT them.
Thanks much.
-Dushwari
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smile
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dushwaari first of all u shoulds engage ureself in various activities sooo that u make more space for ureself
it is difficult to get over . but with time it surely heels :)
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Take care of yourself.
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guys are jerks.. grlz are *****es.. sh*t happens, life goes on :)
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You know the last thing you said there is interesting. Some guys think that a woman will never ever be able to find their replacement but it pisses him off when she does move on. I am not saying that you should find another boyfriend/husband/lover just to piss him off but just getting over him and letting him know that he wasn’t worth the trouble will be your sweet revenge. And on a side note, if you do need a boyfriend(YES)/husband(NOOOOOOOOOOOO)/, and dare I say LOVER (THE BEST), I’ll be happy to provide my services. As for those women who were also deeply hurt by us men or just dislike men because we don’t give them attention and are looking to pick a fight with me because of what I suggested, IT WAS A FREAKIN JOKE!!!
Anyways, I know its difficult Dushwari but hang in there kiddo, each hour that passes by will bring you peace.
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Getting over a guy is just like getting over a girl. No difference. Someone much smarter than I once told me, that time does not heal all wounds. What time does is fade the memories and the pain so you no longer remember it as acutely as before. So there is always hope.
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IMO the best way for girls to get over a guy is to get under another one ASAP.
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a pint of mint chocolate chip will do the trick 