getting over a guy

[Dushwari]

Re: getting over a guy

honey, how screwed are u?

@fallenpieta

You know the last thing you said there is interesting. Some guys think that a woman will never ever be able to find their replacement but it pisses him off when she does move on. I am not saying that you should find another boyfriend/husband/lover just to piss him off but just getting over him and letting him know that he wasn't worth the trouble will be your sweet revenge. And on a side note, if you do need a boyfriend(YES)/husband(NOOOOOOOOOOOO)/, and dare I say LOVER (THE BEST), I'll be happy to provide my services. As for those women who were also deeply hurt by us men or just dislike men because we don't give them attention and are looking to pick a fight with me because of what I suggested, IT WAS A FREAKIN JOKE!!!!!!

Anyways, I know its difficult Dushwari but hang in there kiddo, each hour that passes by will bring you peace.

[Dushwari]

Re: getting over a guy

yeey gal howee na.!
thanks!

@smilestar

a pint of mint chocolate chip will do the trick :D

[Dushwari]

Re: getting over a guy

a piece of advice...

the point is not to get laid under or over another guy/s...
it is ...
to lay hands on a diamond... a true man - for the rest of one's life.

if that is too hard for immature men... too bad.

the old saying goes: boys are dirty, nasty and mean; Girls are pretty, neat and clean.
& of course there is a HUGE imbalance here, we girls deal with.

samhajh lagee!

@lussi

IMO the best way for girls to get over a guy is to get under another one ASAP.

[Dushwari]

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thanks Grumpy,.

if u are a guy, u sound decent in being emphatic and i commend that in u.

best,

Dushwari

@Grumpy

Getting over a guy is just like getting over a girl. No difference. Someone much smarter than I once told me, that time does not heal all wounds. What time does is fade the memories and the pain so you no longer remember it as acutely as before. So there is always hope.

[Dushwari]

Re: getting over a guy

thanks, Sonia.

i like dark choclate or its espresson coffee shots.
they make this bitter experience - bitter-sweet time and again!

Dushwari

@sonia123

candy.....chocolate...

[Captain1]

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@Dushwari

Thanks sakhis. You're always neat to draw support from. I wish I can get over him and him and him and many more to come *They're so ROTTEN TO THE CORE. * That would be my revenge... replace them, misplace them. - Those nuts are less than honorable, who aren't even half of the men, to say a good bye, to let it be known what GOT them.

Thanks much.

-Dushwari

See, you are already close to getting over him :D

As others recommended, don't "try" getting over, just stay busy, read something, work out (if you are into it), go shopping (if you have money :D), talk to friends.... things will help and of course the best help is in staying in touch with your creator!

[Dushwari]

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thanks , Captain 1
Good advice.

@Captain1

See, you are already close to getting over him :D

As others recommended, don't "try" getting over, just stay busy, read something, work out (if you are into it), go shopping (if you have money :D), talk to friends.... things will help and of course the best help is in staying in touch with your creator!

[KAKA-ATOM-BUM]

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Before yapping on and on about how someone got away, maybe you should sit down and think hard. Why did he go away? What were the reasons? Could it be you who drove him away??? Its easy to call someone names and tell people how rotten he was, but something must have happened.

You aint getting my sympathies till I really know he was in the wrong and not you.

[Grumpy]

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Dushwari I am a guy and knowing pain is not an aspect of a specific gender. Everybody hurts when the one you love can be taken away from you.

Kaka to show sympathy for pain felt does not require proof. Her pain is no different than from the guys. It takes two to create a break up. Don't make her feel worse by being insensitive and aggressive.

The pain is independent from who caused the break up or what the reasons were.

[Impulse]

Re: getting over a guy

@nia_khan

*sigh

dushwari its a dushwaar raasta

for some it takes a moment for others months or years... and for some never.

Unfortunately sometimes life throws fireballs at you and most of us cant handle this one well. Its a slow healing process since this wound takes a long time to get healed. There will be sleepless nights, there will be very rainy nights as well but in a long run you get over it. The best way to look at it is- after all that pain and misery you become a little stronger then you were before and life goes on.

The world is not cruel people are unfortunately. What you do is start looking at the bigger picture look at your life as a big huge book with numerous chapters. Sometimes few names are mentioned just in few chapters and sometimes few people are either on your footnote or header -;). Those who remained there through out the ups and down are worth crying for - dont you think? - So moral of the lecture is- don't ruin or cry over few chapters they do leave a scar but in this day and age even those are removeable.

remember footnote and header part ;)

Sometimes its nice to read your own book and smile through the things one has gone through. Life is beautiful - Allah created too many amazing things appreciate them and hug the life.....

when life becomes all gray - mourn as much as you want - sometimes its nice to cry while walking in rain because no one can really see it. Crying on your pillow leaves signs of depression. After that mourning session get up and Start painting your life ALL over again. - its a beautiful task :~)

beautiful advice from Nia...

i agree totally with what she said....its just one chapter in ur life....get over it....if that person was so good or worth loving you would never have separated regardless of whos fault it was.....because even if u think its ur fault....if he was so good, he wouldve forgiven u and stayed.

4get the jerk.....theres some good guys in the world too who deserve your love:) BUT beware of the jerks plz. good luck.

[smilestar]

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@Dushwari

yeey gal howee na.!
thanks!

[Afridi786]

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@Sara516

guys are jerks.. grlz are *****es.. sh*t happens, life goes on

So true…

[Dushwari]

Re: getting over a guy

Just to get u a glimpse of his mentality..

one time, jokingly, i said i would want to have a prayer room in our house, if and when we got together.

Dejected and angry, he said

"ahan, why, so u could hide away ur self from home chores."

& this came from an educated young man.

sometimes, men's narrow minded ness are but a mere reflection of their own insecurities.

countless examples... teasing me for my education, my blunt answers, my provocative responses to elders about wrong rawayat and wastey regarding why men are more azad then women...

so u know what. that loser lost an otherwise really loving person in me.

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@KAKA-ATOM-BUM

Before yapping on and on about how someone got away, maybe you should sit down and think hard. Why did he go away? What were the reasons? Could it be you who drove him away??? Its easy to call someone names and tell people how rotten he was, but something must have happened.

You aint getting my sympathies till I really know he was in the wrong and not you.