Re: Getting married to someone you don't want to get married to!
In that respect, it is no different from a non-arranged marriage. Even there it takes a while AFTER the commitment to really know all sides of the mate - because during courtship you're only seeing what the other person wants you to see.
very well said...i think one truly only gets to know the real person after they spend time 2gether live 2gether....so unless some1 is livin in a live in relationship they cant even get to know their bf/gf well enough before marriage.