Getting married to a psycho??

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Re: Getting married to a psycho??

@krmaml1

Yes, Reha. Youre right. But as I mentioned before, Pakistani men are raised to believe that all they have to offer a woman is gifts and financial security. Thats the only reason why a woman would be interested in them. and affection has to be earned from women that way.
I suggested this before and it offended a lot of people. Its good that a woman has stated the same

I did not say exactly that all a woman is interested in is financial security from a man, and that is the only way to earn the woman’s affection. But as icicle said, its the insecurities. Girls fee insecure before marriage, and specially those engaged to guys abroad feel even more insecure. So that’s why some parents (who feel insecure about their daughter’s futures) try to ‘secure’ the daughter’s future by asking for a large mehar etc. Maybe she’s getting this mentality from her friends/family, if not her parents. If she’s wise she will be able to get rid of her insecurities sooner or later after marriage, but she might not and then she will keep behaving like this for all her life.